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		<title>He is gonna be your guy: Jet drummer Chris Cester makes his ‘long time coming’ frontman debut with Mystic Knights</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 20 Apr 2026 07:05:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Back when Australian garage-rockers Jet were dominating aughts FM radio with their attitudinal, riffage-heavy bangers “Are You Gonna Be My Girl” and “Cold Hard Bitch,” drummer Chris Cester was sort of the Tommy Lee of the alt-rock scene — in the sense that his huge rock-star personality (which has not diminished even slightly over the [&#8230;]]]></description>
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<p>Back when Australian garage-rockers Jet were dominating aughts FM radio with their attitudinal, riffage-heavy bangers “Are You Gonna Be My Girl” and “Cold Hard Bitch,” drummer Chris Cester was sort of the Tommy Lee of the alt-rock scene — in the sense that his huge rock-star personality (which has not diminished even slightly over the past two decades, judging from his boldly hilarious new interview for Licorice Pizza’s LPTV) often outshone his big brother Nic Cester, Jet’s lead singer.</p>
<p>“Honestly, a lot of people in the past have said, ‘He leads from the back,’ that kind of thing. And the truth is, I&#8217;m pretty vain. I always enjoyed the <em>show</em> part of the show, really selling the show and going for it.” So states Chris as he sits with his new-ish band, the ferocious and swaggering Mystic Knights, at Studio City’s Licorice Pizza Records, where they’re celebrating the 7-inch vinyl release of their second single, “Count.”</p>
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<p>“I’ve never really said this before, but it often bothered me, because I&#8217;m a songwriter, that I would write these [Jet] songs and I’d play them in front of thousands of people, and it would be my brother singing them, not me,” admits Chris (whose many Jet co-writes include “Cold Hard Bitch,” “Rollover DJ,” “Get What You Need,” “Move On,” and “Take It or Leave It”). “When I was in my mid-twenties, I probably selfishly thought, ‘Nobody even knows it&#8217;s me,’ all the time. … It was a little bit frustrating to have done the work and not get the rewards, the recognition. … I have no qualms with that now; it was what it was, is what it is. But now I get to perform all the songs that I write myself. It&#8217;s been a long time coming, and yeah, I enjoy it!”</p>
<p>Mystic Knights is a supergroup featuring the Soft White Sixties’ Aaron Eisenberg and film composer/self-described “road dog” Manny Castro, and originally known as Mystic Knights of Amnesia. (There’s no connection to the Danny Elfman-fronted new wave band once fully called the Mystic Knights of the Oingo Boingo; the name was actually a “smart-ass” suggestion from Chris’s pal Noel Gallagher.) “I met Chris out one night and I gave him a ride home from somewhere and we were talking, and he&#8217;s like, ‘Dude, your girl&#8217;s older than you. You must have a big dick,’” Castro laughingly recalls. “And I was like, ‘This guy&#8217;s my new best friend.’”</p>
<p>That was obviously an auspicious (and for Cester, on-brand) start, and Mystic Knights’ early L.A. show were packed. Cester opted not to do the Phil Collins/Don Henley/Andy Sturmer-from-Jellyfish schtick (meaning, he didn’t sing while playing drums, although he and his bandmates joke that they might “still get him a headset” in the future). But despite having all the bravado and bluster that would make him a natural frontman, he surprisingly confesses, “To be honest, the first show Mystic Knights ever played, I was really nervous. I know I&#8217;m not very shy, but I remember going to, um, extreme lengths to overcome my shyness that night — let&#8217;s just put it that way.”</p>
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<p>However, this actually wasn’t the first time Chris had been up in front. His centerstage debut technically took place in 2017, when another supergroup he was involved with, the Jaded Hearts Club (a rotating-member, all-star Beatles cover band also featuring Muse’s Matt Bellamy, the Last Shadow Puppets’ Miles Kane, the Zutons’ Sean Payne, and occasionally Nic Cester, Blur’s Graham Coxon, and Ilan Rubin of Nine Nails/Foo Fighters) played a party for their musician friend Jamie Davis.</p>
<p>Chris confesses again, “I was so nervous. I&#8217;d never felt nervous like that before. I&#8217;d been so lucky in my career up until that point, to be able to be in the back. It actually gave me a lot of respect for what my brother does for a living, being the frontman. I always just sort of took it for granted when you go onstage every night, and we had a pretty lucky quick road to success with Jet. It gave me a lot of respect for him because I went onstage, I was like, ‘Oh damn, this is a whole different ballgame.’ But something happened after that. It was just <em>fun</em>. We’d gotten together because it was a friend&#8217;s birthday, like, ‘Let&#8217;s just do some Beatles covers,’ and we just had such a good time. … So, I got to go onstage and really learn how to perform.”</p>
<p>The next year, Jaded Hearts Club performed at Rachael Ray’s outdoor Feedback party at South by Southwest. (“We had a bet of who could keep their leather jacket on for the longest. And I won. Of course I won. I always win,” Chris quips). And  even more intimidatingly, they played a Stella McCartney event where her father, an actual Beatle, showed up and surprise-jammed with them. By this point, Chris was feeling more confident behind the mic, but as he recalls, “It was intense, because there&#8217;s fame, and then there&#8217;s the <em>Beatles</em>! It was amazing, because I know a few famous people, but it&#8217;s a different kind of level when it&#8217;s someone like him. … We were just halfway through and I was singing, ‘She was just 17…’ It was a foot-high stage and then [Sir Paul McCartney] just stepped on there. I looked over to my right and I was like [<em>jaw drops</em>]. … I got offstage and there was like 48 missed text messages. Everyone knew about it within 20 minutes. My mom had called me three times!”</p>
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<p>All of this set up Chris for sure success as a cocksure frontman, but only a few weeks after Mystic Knights’ above-mentioned first Los Angeles shows, the COVID-19 lockdown put their live plans on hold. So, the band shifted their focus to writing and recording, and it was a prolific time: While Mystic Knights have only released two singles so far (the other one being “This High Up”), they estimate that they have at least 250 songs in their arsenal.</p>
<p>“Chris has an old G3 tower computer full of unreleased songs,” Eisenberg laughs.</p>
<p>“And there&#8217;s like a hundred songs labeled ‘Tuesday,’ and then a hundred more labeled ‘Wednesday,’ and a hundred more labeled ‘Thursday,’ or something like that. So, it’s hard to find them,” adds Castro.</p>
<p>Jet have enjoyed a resurgence as of late — they were inducted into the Hall of Fame at the 2023 ARIA Music Awards (Australia’s equivalent to the Grammys), where Chris and his Jet bandmates performed a medley of hits, and then officially “reunited” in 2024, although Chris has not been part of that reunion, with Peter Marin playing drums instead. When asked about the possibility of him returning to Jet to appear on their long-rumored comeback album (which would be Jet’s first since 2009), he bristles a bit and answers with his usual sauciness, “Well, if you were Jet, and the drummer in Jet had 250 songs on the boil, what would <em>you</em> do?”</p>
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<p>Fair enough. Chris is instead excitedly prepping Mystic Knights’ debut full-length album, whittling down those 250 songs. “Oh yeah, we&#8217;re making a record. It&#8217;s going to be out this year,” reveals Castro. “We went to EastWest [Studios] the other day. We finished recording the whole thing, and now we&#8217;re just in the final mixing and getting all the final vocals and overdubs done.”</p>
<p>Watch Mystic Knights’ full LPTV interview in the video at the top of this article, where they discuss tricking Chris’s friend, Caleb Followill of Kings of Leon, into saying the C-word on live radio; their surprising desert-island-disc picks; their unexpected (and awesome) live Kasabian cover; the story behind Jet’s bloody and murderous seldom-aired “K.I.A.” music video; and Chris’s love for under-appreciated (on this side of the equator) Australian power-trio You Am I.</p>
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		<title>Falling Doves on their unreleased album with original Beatle Pete Best: ‘He plays like Marky Ramone. He really is a punk drummer.’</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 20 Apr 2026 03:29:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[This week brings us a new album from Ringo Starr, who’ll also appear on his former bandmate Paul McCartney’s The Boys of Dungeon Lane album coming out May 29. But real Fab Four fanatics will be excited to learn they may soon hear a new collaborative album featuring another Beatles drummer, Pete Best. “So, we [&#8230;]]]></description>
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<p>This week brings us a <a href="https://www.lyndsanity.com/music/ringo-starr-long-long-road-ive-been-a-lucky-human-being-i-got-to-do-what-i-love-to-do/" target="_blank">new album from Ringo Starr</a>, who’ll also appear on his former bandmate Paul McCartney’s <em>The Boys of Dungeon Lane</em> album coming out May 29. But real Fab Four fanatics will be excited to learn they may soon hear a new collaborative album featuring another Beatles drummer, Pete Best.</p>
<p>“So, we <a href="https://www.91x.com/loudspeaker/exclusive-session-video-original-drummer-for-the-beatles-pete-best-with-local-band-the-falling-doves-its-a-pyles-session/" target="_blank">recorded this album together for the [91X] radio station</a>… we did about six songs together, but we haven&#8217;t done anything with it,” reveals Christopher Leyva, leader of the intercontinental glam-rock collective Falling Doves.</p>
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<p>Leyva exclusively tells LPTV this news while sitting with his rotating bandmates at Studio City’s Licorice Pizza Records, during a celebration for Falling Doves’ 10th anniversary. Leyva, a “100 percent Mexican” San Diego/Los Angeles native, has been living in Liverpool more much of those 10 years — after Falling Doves were on a Liverpool layover during their European tour, headed to Sweden, and the airline lost their luggage.</p>
<p>“We were stuck in Liverpool for a week, and we just fell in love with the people there. … The thing is the culture over there is so great, very much just into music,” Levya gushes.</p>
<p>Eventually, Leyva became pals with Liverpool’s Best, who was famously the Beatles’ drummer from 1960 to 1962, playing with them during their developing Hamburg era, before he was sacked by Beatles manager Brian Epstein and replaced by Starr.</p>
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<p>“We were working in this documentary where they grabbed a band and they took us on the same route to Hamburg, the way the Beatles went, and for part of it we got to spend time with Pete to learn about everything that we needed to do in Hamburg — which I&#8217;m <em>not</em> going to go into detail about, because I don&#8217;t know who&#8217;s watching this [interview]!” Leyva chuckles. “But I will say became good friends, and he said he’d come play for me on my birthday, as my drummer. He kept his word, flew down San Diego, and we did a mini-tour.”</p>
<p>Leyva, a rock ‘n’ roll lifer himself, got to spend a lot of quality time on the road with Best, who had sadly become a punchline or cautionary tale because of his unluck Beatles firing. And Leyva got to learn about how Best recovered from the setback.</p>
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<p>“To be honest with you, you can learn a lot about a man by drinking with him for a week straight,” Leyva says. “You can&#8217;t just go and <em>ask</em>, but the more time you&#8217;re with them, they just themselves start telling you stories. And so, [Best] did go through a really rough period. But I think he had everything that he wanted to begin with. And as the years progressed, he saw how some of [the Beatles’] lives kind of went, and he became a civil servant, but he lived a good, moderate life. And he got his due in the ‘90s [when he received substantial royalties from the <em>Anthology</em> project]. But he&#8217;s such an optimistic dude. And he&#8217;s such a <em>powerful</em> drummer, actually.”</p>
<p>Leyva and Best got so close, so quickly, in fact, that during that whirlwind Falling Doves/Pete Best tour he even tried to facilitate some sort of comical Ringo Starr/Pete Best collaboration.</p>
<p>“That same weekend that he came to my birthday, Ringo was playing at Humphreys [in San Diego]. So, I went over to say hi to Ringo, and I felt <em>horrible</em>, because it&#8217;s like cheating on your girlfriend! That’s kind of how it felt,” Leyva chuckles. “So, the whole weekend I was going back and forth between Pete and Ringo, hanging out, then I was drinking a little bit too much and I was smoking weed with Ringo and some of his &#8230; I&#8217;m not supposed to say that! I was smoking some weed with some of his <em>friends</em>. So, I just threw out this wild idea and I said to Ringo, ‘I&#8217;m shooting this music video. Let&#8217;s pretend that you&#8217;re playing the drums, and then Pete Best kicks you off the drum kit.’ And he laughed and he said, ‘That&#8217;d be funny!’ But then I said the same story to Pete… and that <em>wasn&#8217;t</em> that funny. No, [Best] didn&#8217;t like that at <em>all</em>! So, I was like, ‘Oh, I&#8217;m fucking with you, man! I&#8217;m messing with you.’”</p>
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<p>Faling Doves ended up <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-yj2IQZF6RU" target="_blank">hiring a Ringo impersonator for the video instead</a>, but there didn’t seem to be hard feelings on either side. And while Starr is of course widely and historically considered to be the better drummer of the two, Leyva continues to be impressed by Best’s under-appreicated skills.</p>
<p>“I&#8217;ll tell you a funny story. First day he walks into our studio, because we&#8217;d never jammed with him, I tell the guys, ‘Hey, let&#8217;s go a little easier on this old guy.’ And he gets in the drums and <em>wow</em>, he plays like Marky Ramone — <em>hard</em>, like <em>boom</em>! It’s a different ball game. Ringo&#8217;s a great drummer, but [Pete] really is a punk drummer,” Leyva marvels.</p>
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<p>Leyva “didn&#8217;t want to do a bunch of Beatle covers,” so they let Best pick the songs, including one of Falling Doves’ originals, “Glass of Wine.” The resulting Falling Doves/Pete Best 91X mini-album, r<span style="color: #000000;">ecorded live at San Diego&#8217;s Iacon Sound, </span>remains unreleased — Leyva says Best is negotiating with NAMM to put it out — and while Best officially retired in early 2025, Leyva doesn’t rule out him eventually making some live appearances to promote the record.</p>
<p>“Yeah, we&#8217;ll bring him out. As long as you bring him with his wife, he might come out,” Leyva quips. “He&#8217;s never going to stop drumming. He <em>drums</em>. He loves it.”</p>
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		<title>Hangin’ Tuff with Kyle Thomas: King Tuff talks tacos, pickles, ice cream, cheese, ‘avocado baby voice,’ and returning to his rock roots</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Apr 2026 04:32:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[King Tuff, aka neo-psychedelic singer-songwriter Kyle Thomas, is a modern-day renaissance man. When he’s not fronting the stoner-rock band Witch, occasionally playing with Ty Segall, or focused on his solo career — recently releasing his sixth album MOO, a full-circle return to the lo-fi aesthetic of his early home recordings, on his own record label, [&#8230;]]]></description>
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<p>King Tuff, aka neo-psychedelic singer-songwriter Kyle Thomas, is a modern-day renaissance man. When he’s not fronting the stoner-rock band Witch, occasionally playing with Ty Segall, or focused on his solo career — recently releasing his sixth album <em>MOO</em>, a full-circle return to the lo-fi aesthetic of his early home recordings, on his own record label, <a href="https://kingtuffworld.net/mup/" target="_blank">MUP</a> — he’s usually at his bunker in Vermont, drawing, painting, and pickling.</p>
<p>This master of the arts also an incredible webmaster, overseeing his animated-GIF-adorned online hub, <a href="https://kingtuffworld.net" target="_blank">kingtuffworld.net</a>, which could easily be mistaken for the <em><a href="https://www.spacejam.com/">Space Jam </a></em><a href="https://www.spacejam.com/">website</a> or a Wayback Machine redirect to a discarded GeoCities page. World Wide Web-surfers probably feel like they’ve stumbled onto the site via some Ask Jeeves portal, and they can practically hear the screech of a 28.8k modem or see toasters flying in the distance as they journey down Tuff’s information superhighway. But along the way, those lookie-loos will clean a lot more information than most artist’s modern websites offer —  not just Tuff’s <a href="https://kingtuffworld.net/photos/" target="_blank">photography</a>, <a href="https://kingtuffworld.net/artwork/" target="_blank">artwork</a>, and mostly self-directed <a href="https://kingtuffworld.net/videos/" target="_blank">music videos</a>, but his likes and, more comically, <em>dis</em>likes, listed in the Papa Smurf-themed section called “<a href="https://kingtuffworld.net/complaints/" target="_blank">Grandpa’s Complaint Corner</a>.”</p>
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<p>Grandpa Tuff may have plenty to complain about — “This world could be a lot nicer,” he tells LPTV, sitting at Studio City’s Licorice Pizza Records while signing copies of <em>MOO</em> — but he’s actually an exceedingly cheerful dude, living his best life. “You only live once, as they say. So, you’ve got to experience all you can,” he shrugs. In the delightful video above and edited text Q&amp;A below, he discusses his return to both his rock roots and his home turf of Vermont, mixtapes, ice cream, tacos, pickles, cheese, and something that has nothing to do with food, “avocado baby voice.”</p>
<p>Come hang Tuff in Kyle&#8217;s corner.</p>
<p><strong>LPTV: Your new, sixth album, <em>MOO</em>, seems like a full-circle affair. You were perhaps not totally comfortable with your last couple of records, and you wanted to return to your roots. You even recorded it on your old equipment from back in the day.</strong></p>
<p><strong>KING TUFF:</strong> Yes. I do like the last previous albums I&#8217;ve made, but I was kind of experimenting with my sound a little bit. And when it came time to playing those records live, it was hard to pull off because they had strings and pianos and stuff on them. When I&#8217;d be playing live, I just kind of wanted to play the <em>rock</em> songs, my earlier songs. So, I was like, &#8220;I&#8217;m just going to make an album that&#8217;s <em>fun</em> to play live.” And it&#8217;s also just the music that comes most natural to me — just fun, rock ‘n’ roll kind of music. So, I just decided to lean into that. And yeah, I went back to my Tascam 388, which is the tape machine I recorded on a lot of my early stuff on.</p>
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<p><strong>Your debut album from 2008 was recorded on that! Did it still work?</strong></p>
<p>It didn&#8217;t work for about a decade. That&#8217;s why I hadn&#8217;t been using it. But I finally got it fixed, and instantly I just felt like myself again when I started working on it.</p>
<p><strong>Is there something about that old equipment that the newer stuff just can&#8217;t replicate?</strong></p>
<p>Yeah. I mean, it&#8217;s a pain in the ass to keep it working, but it just has a <em>sound</em> to it. Whereas recording on the computer, you have to work a little harder to make it sound cool, because it&#8217;s so clean and high-def that you have to put effects and plugins on it to make it sound cooler. With the tape machine, you put something in and it comes back sounding cooler.</p>
<p><strong>What made you want to experiment sonically on your two previous albums, <em>The Other</em> and <em>Smalltown Stardust</em>?</strong></p>
<p>Just boredom, really. I mean, you do something for a while and then you want to try something else. I have a lot of different musical influences, and I think a lot of artists want to see how far they can take their sound. I just write songs, and they come out the way they want to come out. And certain songs ask for certain things.</p>
<p><strong>Were those albums well-received by your fans, or were fans like, &#8220;Hey, Tuffy, get back to your Tascam”?</strong></p>
<p>Some people definitely were like that! But a lot of people are like, &#8220;Those are my favorite albums.&#8221; You can&#8217;t please everyone, so you just have to make something that is exciting to you. I just try and make the songs that I want to hear.</p>
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<p><strong>Are there any other ways in which <em>MOO</em> is a full-circle moment, in terms of the lyrics, what you&#8217;re writing about?</strong></p>
<p>Definitely. It&#8217;s full-circle in also moving back to Vermont. Just the spirit of it, like falling back in love with a lot of the stuff I listened to as a teenager and in my early twenties, like ‘70s punk stuff. My early influences were like a lot of Modern Lovers and Television and Ramones, the classic stuff, and I hadn&#8217;t really listened to that stuff for a while. And then I got back into it and I started dating someone and we were making each other mixtapes, and it&#8217;s so fun. I was like, &#8220;I forgot how fun this is.”</p>
<p><strong>What was on the mixtapes, if it&#8217;s not too personal to ask?</strong></p>
<p>That&#8217;s a good question. I don&#8217;t remember. I&#8217;ve made her quite a few at this point!</p>
<p><strong>That&#8217;s very sweet.</strong></p>
<p>But yeah, I think I go into making albums like that, too — I want it to be like a mixtape where every song is good and is its own thing, and you can listen to it over and over again. That&#8217;s what I like about cassettes, too. It&#8217;s like a record, where it has sides. I think that&#8217;s the one thing that streaming doesn&#8217;t have. I&#8217;m into sides.</p>
<p><strong>When you’re doing the sequencing for an album — or even before that, when you’re in the middle of recording it, even if it&#8217;s not on vinyl or cassette yet — do you mentally have in your head a Side A and a Side B? Do you think about when one side will end, and at what point the listener would flip over the tape or LP?</strong></p>
<p>I mean, usually I like to treat each side as an A-side! So, you could either put on either side and it would sound like the beginning of a record, or sound exciting. The first song on Side B should sound sort of like a beginning again.</p>
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<p><strong>I like that K-Tel compilation vibe. Because, did you ever have experiences growing up where you bought an album because you liked one or two singles, but then you got the album and were like, “Oh my God, those were the only two good songs”?</strong></p>
<p>Yeah, it&#8217;s weird when a band just has <em>one</em> song that&#8217;s so good. And then you&#8217;re like, &#8220;What happened to the rest? What happened here?&#8221; I want every song to be like candy that I want to eat over and over again.</p>
<p><strong>Did you write a lot of songs for this record, or was it more like the songs you wrote are the ones that ended up on <em>MOO</em>?</strong></p>
<p>Pretty much [the latter]. There&#8217;s maybe a couple extra ones, but yeah, it all came pretty quickly.</p>
<p><strong>More quickly than usual?</strong></p>
<p><em>Way</em> quicker! I think that was partially due to working on the tape machine. I work a lot faster on that, because you just have to make decisions and you can&#8217;t labor over them. And yeah, I had a clear vision.</p>
<p><strong>What was the vision?</strong></p>
<p>Fun rock ‘n’ roll. Good songs. Keep it simple.</p>
<p><strong>I dig it! You mentioned returning to Vermont [last year], where you grew up. I know you used to live in L.A., for over a decade. What made you go back?</strong></p>
<p>I&#8217;d been thinking about going back ever since the pandemic, really. I really started to miss nature and the seasons, the extreme seasons. And also, the person I&#8217;m dating is also from Vermont. So, the fires last year kind of put us over the edge, and it just felt like a good time to go back.</p>
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<p><strong>How did Vermont inform this album?</strong></p>
<p>Definitely a lot of the lyrical content is &#8230; I was kind of manifesting the move back, I think. There&#8217;s quite a few songs like “East of Ordinary,” “Backroads,” “Landline.” … I actually do need [a landline phone] now.</p>
<p><strong>You live somewhere remote?</strong></p>
<p>Yeah. And my [cell] phone doesn&#8217;t actually work most of the time.</p>
<p><strong>It must be nice though, after being in a big city for so long.</strong></p>
<p>Yeah. I basically traded a social life for trees. And I&#8217;m fine with that. I had gotten to the point in L.A. where I wasn&#8217;t leaving my house too much anyway, so I was like, “I might as well be surrounded by trees, if I&#8217;m in my house all the time.”</p>
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<p><strong>We’re talking a lot about going back to the past — your old equipment, your old sound, your old home state, et cetera. So, I <em>have</em> to ask you about your website! I love the whole ‘90s aesthetic, and I assume that was a <em>choice</em>. Because it&#8217;s a new website, after all.</strong></p>
<p>I love that aesthetic too. I think you can treat a website like an art project, kind of. So, I have a bunch of random stuff on there, like…</p>
<p><strong>“Grandpa&#8217;s Complaint Corner”! I want to ask about that, but go on.</strong></p>
<p>And yeah, some of my photos and just artwork. I was really inspired by Wendy Carlos&#8217;s website, where she has a bunch of just random stuff.</p>
<p><strong>Your site is so fun, especially “Grandpa&#8217;s Complaint Corner.” You are Grandpa, and you rant about very specific pet peeves.. One is “cursive voice,” which you also call “avocado baby voice,” which is basically people sort of singing like they&#8217;re from Iceland or just like doing weird mush-mouthed vowel stuff. Why does this bother you?</strong></p>
<p>It&#8217;s a style of singing that has seemingly just infiltrated every corner of music, and I don&#8217;t know… it&#8217;s disgusting to me. I cannot listen to it. Maybe I&#8217;m just old and I don&#8217;t get it, but it makes me want to die. … I just hope it ends soon.</p>
<p><strong>OK, another one of your music-specific complaints is the idea of being perfect in the studio, which ties into what we were discussing about the making of <em>MOO</em>. Why was that on your list of gripes?</strong></p>
<p>I think especially with rock music, it should <em>not</em> be perfect. And I think this also goes hand-in-hand with recording on computers: You can make things “perfect,” and that just makes them <em>boring</em>. It&#8217;s similar with using AutoTune or something; it kind of makes everyone sound the same. And for me, it&#8217;s all about personality. I want to hear the personality in someone&#8217;s voice, even if they&#8217;re singing off-key. That is what I am drawn to, just somebody&#8217;s true personality. It’s just boring when it sounds like a robot.</p>
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<p><strong>“Grandpa” is also not a fan of bright LED lights.</strong></p>
<p>Is anybody?? I don&#8217;t like overhead lighting. I like lamps. A lot of lamps. &#8230; I&#8217;m trying to push this idea of a lamp-lit supermarket. Can you imagine how <em>relaxing</em> that would be? You would actually go to the grocery store to relax.</p>
<p><strong>I think when a store or office has bright lighting like that, they don&#8217;t <em>want</em> you to relax. They want you to just get your groceries and get out.</strong></p>
<p>Yeah, maybe, I don&#8217;t know. This world could be a lot nicer and we need more lamps.</p>
<p><strong>Well, speaking of groceries,, I felt your pain when browsing Grandpa&#8217;s Complaints, because mentioned your favorite discontinued desserts. I feel that way about Zima and several beauty products, like my favorite lipstick shades that got discontinued. But the things you&#8217;re upset about are Good Humor Toasted Almond Bars and Friendly&#8217;s Wattamelon Roll. These are a really specific complaints. You&#8217;re not just like, &#8220;Oh, I hate chewing loudly.&#8221; Well, you <em>did</em> say that, actually…</strong></p>
<p>I do hate chewing loudly.</p>
<p><strong>That is true. But I was <em>fascinated</em> by some of the specific complaints, because other artists’ websites just say, &#8220;Here&#8217;s my bio, here are my tour dates.&#8221; But I was deep-diving into these random sections of your dark web, and I was really into it.</strong></p>
<p><img class="alignleft wp-image-30079 size-medium" src="https://www.lyndsanity.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/04/friendlys-watermelon-roll-v0-prslsj73ubua1-300x297.jpeg" alt="friendlys wattamelon-roll-" width="300" height="297" /> Well, again, it&#8217;s like I want to show people who I am. I want to share what I&#8217;m thinking about. That&#8217;s what&#8217;s interesting to me to learn about other artists and stuff. But yeah, the desserts… Friendly’s, that&#8217;s like an East Coast chain. The Wattamelon Roll, it was <em>incredible</em>. It was like watermelon sherbet — not “sher-burt” —  with chocolate chips in it. And then the rind was lemon-lime sherbet.</p>
<p><strong>I&#8217;m trying to imagine chocolate chips with watermelon and lemon…</strong></p>
<p>It sounds weird, but it was incredible. They changed it into a <a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/EERepeat/posts/2568184013532893/" target="_blank">different form</a> and it sucks now, and I&#8217;m just mad about it.</p>
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<p><strong>This happened with your favorite brand of cheese as well! You had a favorite brand of cheese that I&#8217;ve never heard of, called Seriously Sharp Cheddar Cheese, that apparently is no longer seriously sharp. False advertising.</strong></p>
<p>Cabot Cheddar is actually close to where I live and I am a lifelong devotee. I still love Cabot. Shout-out Cabot. But they have this cheese called Seriously Sharp and I don&#8217;t know what&#8217;s going on, but it is <em>not</em> sharp anymore. And I wrote to them! I said, “What&#8217;s going on here?” And I got back a pretty bland response.</p>
<p><strong>Much like the cheese itself.</strong></p>
<p>They&#8217;re just like, &#8220;Every batch is different.&#8221; And I&#8217;m like, “No, no, it&#8217;s not. For decades it was the same and it was sharp and it was good.” And it&#8217;s still good, but it&#8217;s not sharp anymore.</p>
<p><strong>Who do we have to escalate this to? We need to speak to the manager.</strong></p>
<p>I might just have to go down there.</p>
<p><strong>This is good marketing here. We&#8217;ll get these products happening again. But I don&#8217;t want to make this interview <em>all</em> about your complaints. If people want to see your other complaints, they should visit your website and check out Grandpa&#8217;s Complaints Corner. You <em>like</em> a lot of things as well.</strong></p>
<p>Oh yeah, a lot!</p>
<p><strong>I wrote down the things you like. It was also very random. Some of them, besides of course playing music, drawing, painting, and other design work, are driving the snowplow (I guess that&#8217;s why you moved back to Vermont), dogs, bowling, the forest, maple syrup, turtles (much like that “I like turtles” YouTube kid), and <em>making</em> ice cream. So, you could make your own Wattamelon Roll! You also like <em>eating</em> ice cream, root beer, and pickling your own homegrown cucumbers. You are a renaissance man of Vermont, aren&#8217;t you?</strong></p>
<p>Yeah, I&#8217;m getting into some pickling. The first song I ever wrote was called “Pickle Boys,” so I gotta live up to that song.</p>
<p><strong>How old were you when you wrote that?</strong></p>
<p>Think I was in fifth grade, maybe.</p>
<p><strong>Was it a very literal song about how you liked pickles, or was there some other metaphorical meaning to that?</strong></p>
<p>No, it was just my love of pickles.</p>
<p><strong>Are there any county-fair, blue-ribbon pickle contests in Vermont you’d like to enter?</strong></p>
<p>I&#8217;m still working on my recipe, but I might get into some of that.</p>
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<p><strong>We&#8217;re talking a lot about food, but a lot of artists do go into that. Hanson have their own beer called Mmmhops. Alice Cooper has a line of hot sauces. Do you think about going into the food space?</strong></p>
<p>Yeah, sure. I&#8217;m sure not making money from music, so I’ve got to start a pickle company.</p>
<p><strong>Or an ice cream company.</strong></p>
<p>Probably both.</p>
<p><strong>Is that one of the reasons you also left L.A.? Because it’s so expensive to live here?</strong></p>
<p>It definitely is cheaper in Vermont. My car insurance went less than half. And the gas is half. It&#8217;s much more manageable.</p>
<p><strong>Is it a better space to create because of all of those things?</strong></p>
<p>Definitely. And there&#8217;s no distractions. When I lived here, I would wake up and be like, “I guess I&#8217;d better get out there and meet some people or do something.” And now I&#8217;m just like, “There&#8217;s nothing going on!”</p>
<p><strong>But is that ever a concern, that you need to be where the action is, networking or whatever?</strong></p>
<p>Heavens, no! I can come to the city when I need to, get my fix, and then retreat back to the woods.</p>
<p><strong>Well, since you&#8217;re back here for a day or two, when you come to Los Angeles, what are the things you miss?</strong></p>
<p>Pretty much just tacos. Vermont has a lot going for it, but it doesn&#8217;t have great Mexican food.</p>
<p><strong>I imagine that would be on Grandpa&#8217;s Complaint Corner too — you venting about the lack of good Mexican food in many parts of the world. What&#8217;s your favorite taco joint in L.A.?</strong></p>
<p>I mean, got to shout out Villa’s.</p>
<p><strong>Which was in the Super Bowl halftime!</strong></p>
<p>Yes, I got very excited when I saw tha.t That was close to where I used to live. My OG that I first loved when I first came to L.A. was Taco Zone. The Asada Mulita at Taco Zone.</p>
<p><strong>Well, I hope you get to have some Asada Mulita while you are here. What else do you have going on? Besides your website, your complaints, all your diverse interests, and of course getting ready to put out and tour <em>MOO</em>, what else are you focusing on these days?</strong></p>
<p>I&#8217;ve just been doing a lot of artwork and making all the music videos.</p>
<p><strong>You shoot them and direct them?</strong></p>
<p>Yeah, for this record I&#8217;ve started doing that, and it&#8217;s been fun.</p>
<p><strong>I know you do the cover artwork for your albums as well. So, the chicken-or-egg question I have about that is: Which comes first? The artwork or the music? Do you think about the artwork while you&#8217;re making the music?</strong></p>
<p>I&#8217;d say it&#8217;s always different, but a lot of times one will kind of inform the other. I switch back and forth a lot. So, if I&#8217;m in a songwriting mode, sometimes I&#8217;ll get ideas for a painting, and then I&#8217;ll start painting and I&#8217;ll think of songs. It kind of goes back and forth that way.</p>
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<p><strong>You&#8217;re a renaissance man. King Tuff of Vermont.</strong></p>
<p>I do what I can. You gotta live. You only live once, as they say. So, you’ve got to experience all you can.</p>
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		<title>After illness and burnout, Cannons get their ‘Glow’ back: ‘There is so much light that comes from making it through a tough situation and finding out how to move forward’</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[When Los Angeles indie-pop trio Cannons returned from their grueling Heartbeat Highway tour in late 2024, just as their career was really exploding, frontwoman Michelle Joy knew something wasn’t quite right. “We were in survival mode. We didn&#8217;t want to say no to anything — and that&#8217;s the quickest way to burn out,” she recalls, [&#8230;]]]></description>
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<p>When Los Angeles indie-pop trio Cannons returned from their grueling <em>Heartbeat Highway</em> tour in late 2024, just as their career was really exploding, frontwoman Michelle Joy knew something wasn’t quite right.</p>
<p>“We were in survival mode. We didn&#8217;t want to say no to anything — and that&#8217;s the quickest way to burn out,” she recalls, sitting with LPTV and her longtime bandmates, guitarist Ryan Clapham and bassist/keyboardist Paul Davis, at Studio City’s Licorice Pizza Records after an autograph-signing event for Cannons’ eagerly anticipated fifth album, <em>Everything Glows</em>.</p>
<p>The burnout and subsequent impostor syndrome actually inspired one of the new LP’s singles, “These Nights,” in which Joy wonders if she’ll be able to maintain this pace and still perform at the high level expected from the group. “I came back from tour and I was just in this <em>low</em> state,” she confesses. “Like, ‘Can I even perform again? Can I even write a good song? Can I show up the way that I want to show up?’”</p>
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<p>Thankfully, Joy eventually got her joy back, as indicated by the new album’s optimistic title, shimmering and euphoric tracks like <span style="color: #000000;">“Light As a Feather,&#8221; </span>and overall summer-soundtrack disco vibes. But it frustratingly took three months for her to be diagnosed with severe anemia, because many doctors refused to take her seriously — instead blaming her persistent, crippling fatigue on her rock n’ roll lifestyle or even on clinical depression.</p>
<p>“It took me <em>so</em> long to figure out what was wrong with me… because of dismissive treatment, telling me that it was something smaller than it was and not doing thorough checkups on everything,” Joy sighs. “Later, I found out low iron causes very depressive [behavior] … It shows itself as severe depression.”</p>
<p>Joy is in a much better place now, physically and emotionally, after receiving proper treatment and undergoing stomach surgery. But her health crisis obviously posed a huge challenge as Cannons commenced work on <em>Everything Glows</em>, and they had to radically alter their collaborative process.</p>
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<p>“I had six weeks [while recovering from surgery] where I couldn&#8217;t meet up, and I told the guys, ‘Don&#8217;t let me stop you! Keep going to the studio and keep writing!’” Joy says.</p>
<p>“We were in the studio for a little bit and we were trying to think of, like, ‘Well, what would Michelle write about?’… Or, ‘What&#8217;s Michelle feeling?’” Davis explains.</p>
<p>Joy stresses, “The reason I even wanted to make songs or join a band is because I love writing.” So, any lyrics she sang on <em>Everything Glows</em> had to ring true, as if she had penned them herself. “[Clapham and Davis] did an amazing job at that, because once I had the brain space to listen and pay attention to what was going on, like <em>deeply</em> listen… I was just like, ‘How did you guys <em>know</em>? Exactly, this is how I feel!’ These are words and things and images that I would&#8217;ve wanted to put in a song.”</p>
<p>There clearly was a sense of camaraderie and trust, almost even osmosis, between the three band members by this point; they likely wouldn’t have been able to make an album this way if this setback had happened 13 years ago when they were first starting out.</p>
<p>“I feel like there&#8217;s not that weird, ego-based thing in the room that might&#8217;ve been the first year, where I&#8217;m like, ‘<em>But I need to contribute this</em>!’” Joy chuckles. “We&#8217;re all in the same space where we&#8217;re just like, ‘What&#8217;s going to be the best thing we can do to bring out the best in each other&#8217;s talents?’”</p>
<p>“Also, at the end of the day, the three of us collectively form our sound. So, there&#8217;s no egos in it,” says Clapham.</p>
<p>&#8220;There&#8217;s <em>so</em> little ego, we have to force Ryan to write solos!&#8221; Davis jokes.</p>
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<p>While Davis and Clapham’s friendship goes back to childhood, their bond with Joy formed when they answered the then-recent Florida transplant’s “vocalist seeks band” ad on, of all things, Craigslist.</p>
<p>“I liked writing poetry… and I would like to try writing songs, but I&#8217;d never been in a band,” Joy explains. “I didn&#8217;t want to go into this solo-artist type of world because that scared me, and I wanted to grow with people, because if you&#8217;re a female that&#8217;s trying to make some songs, it seems scary to just hop from producer to producer. So, I was like, ‘I want to meet people I feel safe with, and I can learn from them.’”</p>
<p>Campbell was intrigued by the ad’s mentions of darkwave influences like TR/ST, but since Craigslist can often a skeevy forum, Joy ended up barely checking her messages. “Honestly, after the first couple of replies, I was like, ‘I&#8217;m just not even going to open these emails,’” she shrugs. So, Campbell tracked her down on social media instead (which <em>sounds</em> skeevy, but it wasn’t in this case), and after they finally connected, they began trading audio files.</p>
<p>“I vividly remember hearing Michelle — her voice on a demo,” Campbell says. My wife was with me at the time; it was like Thanksgiving or something. We were driving home and I&#8217;m like, ‘<em>Listen</em> to her voice. This is absolutely amazing. I think we have something here&#8230;’”</p>
<p>“And then we met up at a coffee shop in Studio City, and it felt like you were already my friend,” Joy says, grinning at Campbell. “It felt like I already knew you. And then when we all worked on music together, it felt like this was what we were supposed to be doing. Nothing felt out of place. It just felt like one of those things in life where you&#8217;re just like, ‘This is what I&#8217;m supposed to be doing.’ And we just kept doing it.”</p>
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<p>When Cannons eventually played their first gig — which was, incredibly, Joy’s first time singing live in public anywhere — at a dive bar called the Rendezvous in Clapham and Davis’s L.A.-adjacent hometown of Santa Clarita, they somehow managed to fill the venue. And that’s when they really knew they were onto something.</p>
<p>“We did expected a couple people, maybe just three people,&#8221; Joy laughs.</p>
<p>&#8220;Friends and family,” says Davis.</p>
<p>“I&#8217;m not even sure <em>how</em> it was so packed! How did they even <em>find</em> our music?&#8221; says Clapham.</p>
<p>&#8220;That was a really cool thing in the beginning, though. We always had fans coming to our shows just by finding us on SoundCloud and through blogs,&#8221; Davis recalls.</p>
<p>&#8220;It definitely felt like we had something,&#8221; says Clapham. &#8220;And if just people would just listen to it, it would catch on eventually.”</p>
<p>Cannons have long since graduated to major stages, and as they return to the road for their <em>Everything Glows</em> tour, they’re making sure to pace themselves this time around.</p>
<p>“We really want to be a band that has longevity, so there&#8217;s a specific way I feel like you have to work so you don&#8217;t burn out,” Joy asserts. “We&#8217;ve reached a point where we make good music, we&#8217;re proud of what we do, we have more confidence, and taking care of ourselves, mentally and physically, is No. 1 — showing up fully to each thing we do, instead of having 15 percent [strength that day] because we&#8217;re exhausted.”</p>
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<p>The band enlisted a supportive new management team to make sure their limits aren’t overextended (“‘Boundaries’ wasn&#8217;t even in my vocabulary when we first started, but I can&#8217;t tell you how important it is to say no to things and really take care of yourself. <em>Boundaries</em>!” says Clapham), and Joy even recently took her first-ever vocal lessons to increase her stamina.</p>
<p>“I had horrible breath support for half of this album because I had a stomach surgery and it was hard to breathe, so it took me some time to get my breath support back. But now I&#8217;m in great shape and ready to tour,” Joy says. “[I’ve learned to] just pay attention and trust my body, and take care of myself a little bit better. And that&#8217;s going to make a huge difference with the longevity thing.”</p>
<p>Listening back to <em>Everything Glows</em> now, after the band has survived so much and emerged all the more stronger, closer, and more inspired for it, Joy muses, “It&#8217;s kind of cool to see the progression of my confidence throughout the album, because the beginning was a very unconfident kind of fearful place, where it started out. But the music is so beautiful and juxtaposes the feelings that I had, and it makes it feel safe to be in that space.</p>
<p>“My dad is no longer here, but he came to me in a dream and told me that this album is something that people really need right now,” she continues, getting a bit choked-up. “I definitely feel the message on the album is the idea that we all come here with a spark and a light inside of us, and many things happen throughout your life that maybe by a certain point dampens it. And you can&#8217;t really see it sometimes, when life gets really heady… but there&#8217;s a lesson in it that can bring you back to this knowing of inner joy. I feel like I&#8217;ve done that personally through being in this band. It has brought me so much joy, so much purpose, and all of the trials and stuff that we&#8217;ve been through over the past four years have taught me so many lessons. … There is so much light that comes from making it through a tough situation and finding out how to move forward in a new way.”</p>
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		<title>Barbaranne Wylde on 40+ &#8216;never boring&#8217; years with Zakk Wylde: &#8216;I would not know what to do with a husband that came home every night at 6 o&#8217;clock!&#8217;</title>
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<p>As Black Label Society release their 12th studio album, <em>Engines of Demolition</em>, that means that frontman Zakk Wylde — also known for his work with Pantera and, of course, as the long-running guitarist for Ozzy Osbourne — is heading back on the road. But his wife, Barbaranne Wylde, is used to that life. In fact, after more than 33 years of marriage (and more than 40 years as a couple!), she actually knows no other life.</p>
<p>“I would <em>not</em> know what to <em>do</em> with a husband that came home every night at 6 o&#8217;clock!” she admits, sitting with <a href="https://www.lyndsanity.com/music/40-years-later-frankie-clarke-remakes-the-candy-music-video-where-her-parents-gilby-and-daniella-first-met/" target="_blank">fellow rock wife Daniella Clarke</a> during a live taping of their <em>Honest AF</em> podcast at Studio City’s Licorice Pizza Records. “That would be really hard for me.”</p>
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<p>The Wyldes’ odds-defying rock ‘n’ roll love story actually has surprisingly simple and suburban origins, when two “grew up together as kids” in Bayonne, New Jersey. “We were babies when we got together,” Barbaranne says. “We did really meet when I was 12. Zakk&#8217;s a year older than me. Sixth grade! And then later on in eighth grade, Zakk had asked me out on a date, and he took me to see the <em>Urban Cowboy</em> movie. He tried to go up my shirt and I wouldn&#8217;t let him, so he broke up with me the following Monday! I always thought he was an asshole for that.”</p>
<p>By the time they got to high school, however, 17-year-old Zakk had matured a bit, and he and 16-year-old Barbaranne had become platonic pals. “I don&#8217;t remember exactly how we worked our way back to each other, but we became total best friends, and he was dating my sister and I was dating the bass player in his band,” Barbaranne reveals.</p>
<p>But Zakk didn’t want to stay in the friendzone forever.</p>
<p>“Zakk told the bass player, ‘You&#8217;re not going to be with Barbaranne anymore, because I&#8217;m going to marry her.’ And then he came over to the house and he&#8217;s like, ‘Do you like Donnie a lot?’ And I go, ‘Well, he&#8217;s all right. Why?’ And he&#8217;s like, ‘Because I just broke up with him for you. Because if you guys started to further your relationship, then I couldn&#8217;t marry you. And I&#8217;m planning on marrying you.’</p>
<p>“And I&#8217;m like, ‘<em>Marrying</em> you? I don&#8217;t even <em>like</em> you! And&#8230; could you stop kissing my sister first?’” Barbaranne recalls, laughing.</p>
<blockquote class="twitter-tweet"><p lang="en" dir="ltr">HAPPY B-DAY To My SUPAH AWESOME GIRLFRIEND!My Parents were worried why I spent so much time in the bathroom &amp; why we were constantly running out of Kleenex Tissue!!! THANKS to YOU There’s plenty of Kleenex!!!HAPPY SUPAH B-DAY! I SUPAH LOVE YOU BARBARANNE!!! <a href="https://t.co/J45HwhxOeX">pic.twitter.com/J45HwhxOeX</a></p>
<p>&mdash; Zakk Wylde (@ZakkWyldeBLS) <a href="https://twitter.com/ZakkWyldeBLS/status/1060812964331085824?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">November 9, 2018</a></p></blockquote>
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<p>Zakk and Barbaranne were a couple from that point on, and on Dec. 14. 1992, right after Ozzy’s two-year <em>No More Tears</em> tour ended, the two tied the knot in Bora Bora. It was during their honeymoon that Barbaranne amusingly realized that as the official Mrs. Wylde, she’d never escape the rock life, not even in the remote South Pacific.</p>
<p>“We’re thinking that we&#8217;re going to be by ourselves… but in the middle of the Pacific Ocean, I kid you not, we&#8217;re on a boat doing our thing, and I&#8217;m hearing, &#8216;Zakk, dude, Zakk!’ And I&#8217;m like, ‘No <em>way</em> is this happening&#8230;’” she laughs.</p>
<p>And then, right in the middle of the newlyweds’ private, skinny-dipping honeymoon moment in a Bora Bora lagoon, up cruised a party boat with Ugly Kid Joe singer Whitfield Crane on board.</p>
<p>“Zakk’s naked with just a T-shirt over him, and I am completely topless. I have nothing on but a bikini bottom,” Barbaranne chuckles. “Thank God I had sunglasses on — I pretended to be sleeping. And [Crane] is like, ‘Dude! Come hang out with us! Come jump in our boat!’ And Zakk&#8217;s like, &#8220;Um, I’m on my <em>honeymoon</em>. I&#8217;m good.’”</p>
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<p>While Barbaranne still enjoys the rock ‘n’ roll lifestyle after all these years, the Wyldes’ home life actually isn’t very wild at all.</p>
<p>“I definitely think my husband is a completely different person at home than when he&#8217;s in front of an audience,” Barbaranne reveals. “When he&#8217;s home, people are <em>shocked</em> when they&#8217;re at the house. He&#8217;s super-quiet! He retreats into his own little area. He&#8217;s writing; he&#8217;s in his own head. When he&#8217;s in front of a camera and people, he is <em>on</em>; when he&#8217;s home, he is not at all. And that&#8217;s surprising to people. … When he&#8217;s home and he just wants to hang out with the kids and the dogs and do those regular things, it&#8217;s really pleasant, because we don&#8217;t get to do it all the time.”</p>
<p>However, Barbaranne, who sometimes joins her husband on the road, believes that the unpredictability of touring life, along with a bit of naughty bedroom cosplay (“I have a lot of different wigs. I have lots of different outfits. I can be Business Barbie, Secretary Barbie, Porn Star Barbie…”), helps keep their marriage spicy.</p>
<p>“A change of environment… being in hotels and different locales and places, it completely changes the dynamic sometimes,” she says. “And I like the fact that my life is never boring and never routine.”</p>
<p><em>Below, watch Barbaranne Wylde and Daniella Clarke’s full ‘Honest AF’ podcast taping at Licorice Pizza Records, during which they share more rock ‘n’ roll marriage tips and secrets:</em></p>
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<p>Alt-rock singer-songwriter Whitney Tai may have just released an <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=owGBtfccYBQ">unexpected cover of the theme song to <em>That Thing You Do!</em></a>, but her most recent full work, the epic concept album <em>American Wasteland</em>, is a movie unto itself. Created with producer Tom “Tommy Hatz” Hatziemanouel between 2021 and 2024 — obviously a tumultuous time in the world, but also in Tai’s personal life, as she dealt with the death of her addict father and the end of a toxic long-term relationship — it’s her most personal and defining artistic statement yet.</p>
<p>“I would say this album is the most <em>me</em>,” says Tai tells LPTV, sitting at Studio City’s Licorice Pizza Records before performing <em>American Wasteland</em> live in its entirety, with a full band, for the first time. “It&#8217;s the most organic and rustic and folky. I&#8217;m very inspired by &#8217;70s folk music, but I&#8217;m also a &#8217;90s kid, so I love grunge and alternative metal. At the end of the day, you wash a pop sensibility over that from my ‘90s experience, and this is the amalgamation of this album has become. It&#8217;s all my influences, all the things I want to sing and perform, wrapped into one. And I don&#8217;t feel like there&#8217;s any compromises on myself in this record.”</p>
<p>In the edited Q&amp;A below and extended video above, the renaissance woman opens up about the family that has shaped her (the death of her mother from cancer when Tai was 10, her fraught and complex relationship with her dad, the vaudeville in her blood, being parentified, and how her grandfather encouraged her to pursue her dreams); her return to music after giving it all up for a 9-to-5 life; how her past architecture career and her love of nature influence her aesthetics; and how making <em>American Wasteland</em> saved her life and became her “peace.”</p>
<p><strong>LPTV: <em>American Wasteland</em> has been described as a concept album. Is that accurate? And if so, what&#8217;s the concept?</strong></p>
<p><strong>WHITNEY TAI:</strong> <em>American Wasteland</em> began sort of like this subconscious journey into my own personal trials and tribulations, dealing with abuse and narcissism and just people and situations that were causing me mental health issues. For a while I was writing this record and I didn&#8217;t even <em>realize</em> that while I was writing it — that I was working through circumstantial triggers and problems around me. My <em>body</em> could feel that there were issues going on, but it didn&#8217;t really know, on the outer cortex, how to process those yet. And as things started to come into fuller focus, the concepts I was dealing with interpersonally started to connect to those outer worlds. So, it&#8217;s like looking at things around us — like, people around us could treat us like trash, they can manipulate us, they can abuse us, but it&#8217;s also happening at a larger scale from corporations, from big tech and healthcare organizations. It&#8217;s just everywhere we look; we are being reduced to a piece of waste. And so ,this album is really just to reclaim that sense of purity. … The title track was written at the end of the process of writing this album. I sort of tied it all together because it was like our anthem song. It was like: “Fuck you. Yeah, we&#8217;re waste, but we&#8217;re also <em>not</em> waste.” Like, you can bury as deep down as you want, but we&#8217;re still going to climb the fuck out. It felt good to reclaim and tie the record together from it not just being a microcosm, but a macrocosm at the same time.</p>
<p><strong>This record was written between 2021 and 2024, which was a really tumultuous time in the world and this country. But your father also passed away during this time.</strong></p>
<p>Yes, at the end of the record being done. It was almost like this chapter closed on everything. My dad was one of my earliest musical pushers or inspirations to go into music, but he was also one of the most complicated people in my life, because of how his struggles with alcohol abuse and drugs impacted me as a child and caused me to go through a lot of suffering. And so, there&#8217;s a song on the record called “King of Wands,” and at the beginning of the song, there&#8217;s an old voicemail he left me where you can hear him kind of guilt-tripping me yet again I put it in there because there&#8217;s a sadness — like, my dad loved me so much, but he was a victim of his own problems and he could never escape himself. He never worked on himself. I feel like our generation is the generation of working on themselves, cycle-breaking. And our parents, the Boomer generation, they&#8217;re kind of stuck in their ways and don&#8217;t know how to take mental health seriously or even see that they&#8217;re contributing to a problem at large. And so, that affected our relationship for many years. But it also empowered me to never be like that and make sure that if I do anything in the world, that it&#8217;s with love and passion and tenderness, and that I&#8217;m not going to fall back into habits. Because he was an amazing guitar player, an amazing musician, and he never saw those things through because he was stuck in his issues. Him passing away, it was almost like the initial aggravator of my childhood trauma was gone. I was really sad, but I was also in a way free, because I didn&#8217;t have to keep being tormented by someone.</p>
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<p><strong>Were you and your father close at the end, if you don&#8217;t mind me asking? Was there any closure him with about all of this?</strong></p>
<p>There was never <em>closure</em>, but I think there was an unspoken understanding that my dad knew that he effed up and he just really never got a chance to reclaim our relationship. But I loved him anyway, and I showed up to accept him as he was in those last years, because I think he was also realizing the mortality and the finality of life. I&#8217;m fortunate that we were amicable, but I had to keep my distance just to protect myself, because as everybody in the scene knows, dealing with substance abusers is really difficult, because their behaviors are extremely manipulative and narcissistic. It&#8217;s hard to reason with that when there&#8217;s constant lying. I feel like I&#8217;ve built up such a hard shell around myself, like <em>armor</em>, throughout my life because I&#8217;ve always had to be the parent. I&#8217;ve had to be the mature one. My sister is special-needs, so I had to take care of her when I was a kid, and I&#8217;m taking care of her again now that he&#8217;s passed. So, it&#8217;s like my life has been dedicated to just being the strong eldest daughter.</p>
<p><strong>And I know you were a caretaker to your grandfather as well. You said your dad was one of your early musical inspirations – I’ve read that the first music thing you ever did was singing 4 Non Blondes’ “What&#8217;s Up” at age 7 with your dad accompanying you on guitar — but then it was your grandfather, much later in life, that encouraged you to re-pursue your musical dream, right?</strong></p>
<p>Yep. He was very father-like to me. There was this love and this nurturing there that I never really got, so that nurture just reminded me of who I was. Because I&#8217;ve had to be so hard for most of my childhood, having that softness and nurture really reminded me that I can lay back into my feminine and be myself, and I don&#8217;t have to be so guarded and running away from what it is that I desire. And that takes time. I went to art school, I did architecture, and I was practicing that for many years. But that also led me back to music. All of those things colliding reminded me that music is my true path and that I needed to be surrounded by people who loved me in a way that was gentle and unconditional, to be able to make those [career] choices again.</p>
<p><strong>Was there a specific conversation with your grandfather when said, &#8220;Don&#8217;t wait, go for it now, go to back to L.A. and do music again”? I don’t think you were living in Los Angeles at that time.</strong></p>
<p>He would say that very often. He was like, &#8220;My dream is to see you perform in Madison Square Garden one day.&#8221; He just loved when I would sing around the house. He never got to see me perform live; I was hoping that would happen before he passed. But he&#8217;s the one who gave me the ability to chase my dreams, because I was in survival mode when I lived in my house. I did not have any way of accessing or having time to do something like that. And so, having the time to be an artist and to dig back into music, I was able to rediscover my purpose. I think it was just his everyday slow love that allowed me to really know what was right for me.</p>
<p><strong>Are there any songs on <em>American Wasteland</em> that are about your grandpa?</strong></p>
<p>I would say that the closest song that reminds me of my grandfather would be “Sequoias,” because my grandfather was very gentle. He was kind of like that gentle voice of reason, that soft listener, that funny little banter that you need to be shaken up. And there&#8217;s a lyric in “Sequoias” that&#8217;s like, &#8220;Do you see the skyway, or are you distracted by the billboards far above the sun?&#8221; It&#8217;s kind of just a reminder of like, you have this beautiful world in front of you. Why are you looking at the materialism? Focus on love, focus on nature, focus on what matters, because all that shit&#8217;s going to fade. And my grandfather was that. He really cared about things. He cared about his family. He cared about us. My grandparents, both of them, were just all about love, and they&#8217;ve lost all their children. So, for them to even still be walking around like statues of love, after everything&#8217;s been taken away from them, inspired me when I was young. I was like, “If they can go through this shit and still choose to love and show up correctly, then that&#8217;s a choice we all can make, and I&#8217;m not going to be a victim of my circumstances.”</p>
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<p><strong>You say your grandparents lost their children… I know you lost your mother at a young age. Was that something that contributed to you being hard so hardened?</strong></p>
<p>Yes, that definitely contributed to it. My mom was a tough chick and a businesswoman, entrepreneur, artist, and for her to go at such a young age, while I was at a young age and my sister was a young age, definitely changed the way I see the world and approach the world. I promised myself when I lost her that I was never going to do anything without the utmost purpose, intensity, and passion. Even if I have to die for the thing that I love, I would do it, because I don&#8217;t know when my last day is, just like she didn&#8217;t know hers. And my mom was very healthy. She was athletic. She was positive-minded. And she got swept away too soon. That&#8217;s why music for me is everything, and it&#8217;s the one thing that&#8217;s saving me right now after all that shit.</p>
<p><strong>You have music and art in your blood, right? Your dad was a musician, albeit not professionally, but don&#8217;t you come from a long line vaudevillians, tap-dancers, et cetera?</strong></p>
<p>Yes. My mom&#8217;s grandfather was a vaudeville performer and he was a part of the Borden&#8217;s Milk Quartet, who used to go around the whole country singing. My grandmother was a tap-dancer who used to dance with the Marx Brothers. Show business is in my family, and everyone&#8217;s very musical. My grandfather used to sing lots of weird songs around the house when I was a kid. I was like, “Where the fuck are you getting these songs?&#8221; They were made-up. He was a songwriter in his own right. He just loved making up little ditties and I was like, “Wow, these are really, really catchy.” It was nice to be around that.</p>
<p><strong>Why did you delay your own musical career, then? You mentioned that you had responsibilities that made things difficult, but were there any other reasons why you were a relatively late-in-life professional musician?</strong></p>
<p>It was a couple of things. I didn&#8217;t grow up in a neighborhood like that; there was no community around me encouraging that. It was Yonkers, New York, and there&#8217;s not a big music community there. When I was young, I wanted to be a dancer and a figure-skater. I had many passions, but I&#8217;ve always sang. I think it was when I was working for an architecture firm, a friend of mine kind of poked me and reminded me to go back into music. I started working with a producer in Europe and then my voice, hearing my songs produced and understanding what I could do and being shown the capacity of where my music could go, really made me switch something on and go, “Oh, so I <em>can</em> do this!” I didn&#8217;t know what was possible at the time, because I didn&#8217;t have a fruitful community around me showing me what I could do. So, it&#8217;s really just having access. That’s why schools I think should have access to music from a young age. … I think I could have benefited from having a more music-driven community.</p>
<p><strong>But since you initially went into architecture, how does that inform what you&#8217;re doing now? Obviously you&#8217;re very visual, so that had to have fed into how you present yourself now onstage, in videos, in photographs, et cetera.</strong></p>
<p>I think architecture and music are identical as concepts. They are applied differently, but they take the same amount of process. You need to understand harmony and composition and scale and density and empty space. There are so many concepts you use when you&#8217;re planning a space that you would use in a song. All the parts and pieces have to be harmonious. They need to make sure that they&#8217;re not fighting each other, so that each thing can shine on its own. And so, when I&#8217;m making songs, I see them like little spaces, little buildings that I have to configure to make everything work. From the melody to the chord structure to everything, it all has to flow. I think at the end of the day, most mediums, whether it&#8217;s art, painting, music, architecture, requires the same process to arrive at a beautiful, harmonious piece of work.</p>
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<p><strong>If you put your architecture skills to use, the sky was the limit and if you were playing Madison Square Garden on a Lady Gaga-scale tour, what sort of amazing stage set would you build?</strong></p>
<p>If I was doing my own set, because I&#8217;m like a nature buff, I would probably recreate an Icelandic landscape and just have maybe low-lying fog at blue hour, and then maybe lots of stars and cosmos and beautiful moss strewn upon the stage, and then bioluminescent objects. I&#8217;d really love it to feel magical and ethereal. The lighting would be almost as if it&#8217;s in a winter kind of wonderland. I could go a million ways with it, but I&#8217;d want to keep it more organic.</p>
<p><strong>Yes, I know you’re a big nature buff. Maybe people would look at you and not think you’re a granola girl or hippie or bohemian attire, but nature is also a theme on this record. That’s evident in the photography and the videos you&#8217;ve done with Joseph Cultice for <em>American Wasteland</em>.</strong></p>
<p>Yeah, that was really fun. I had this vision in the beginning that I wanted to be this modern-day wasteland, an Ophelia that&#8217;s like drowning in this disgusting moat. I just really wanted to portray the glamor in the decay. That was really was the concept of the main album covers, the glamour and the decay… that things aren&#8217;t what they seem. We&#8217;re suffering out here. We&#8217;re going through a lot of shit. And you slap some latex on it, you put some nice lighting and you put some chains and it&#8217;s like, “Oh, things may be OK,” but it&#8217;s not. Because deep beneath that latex is a body that&#8217;s been soaking in dirty water from the L.A. River for some time.</p>
<p>What ended up happening as we evolved the imagery was that I wanted the closing of the record, which is “Sequoias” — the bookend song where she&#8217;s restored, she&#8217;s back in the ivy, she&#8217;s pure, and she doesn&#8217;t have to identify with that part of her past anymore. She&#8217;s evolved and metamorphosized into something that even she herself could not see, because she was so tarred by the gross shit beneath her and flowing in from all places. And I think Joey did a really good job at understanding that evolution, even just musically, because we never really discussed how that was going to take hold. I think he just absorbed these songs for so long and knew where it was going: that this is us at our lowest point where we don&#8217;t know who we are, and this is us reminded again of who we are and how we&#8217;re never lost. We wander down a path that we shouldn&#8217;t for some time, and that’s OK. Because the return is what&#8217;s beautiful.</p>
<p><strong>How does <em>American Wasteland</em> differ from your previous two records?</strong></p>
<p>I would say that the first two records are a little bit more electronically driven. I&#8217;ve always been more of an alternative/grunge sort of artist, and it&#8217;s taken me a long time to find my sound. I know what I love to listen to what I&#8217;ve been influenced by, but it takes making records to get closer and closer to who you are and what you have to say, because you&#8217;re also growing as these albums are happening. You&#8217;re going through phases of your own evolution. And so, I would say this album is the most <em>me</em>. It&#8217;s the most organic and rustic and folky. I&#8217;m very inspired by &#8217;70s folk music, but I&#8217;m also a &#8217;90s kid, so I love grunge and alternative metal. At the end of the day, you wash a pop sensibility over that from my ‘90s experience, and this is the amalgamation of this album has become. It&#8217;s all my influences, all the things I want to sing and perform, wrapped into one. And I don&#8217;t feel like there&#8217;s any compromises on myself in this record. I was able to have 100 percent creative control alongside Tom [Hatziemanouel]. We were able to do this with our hearts fully in it, and there was no ego and no fighting at all. The entire album process was so harmonious that it was amazing.</p>
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<p><strong>Since you mentioned &#8217;90s and grunge, I must ask about the Alice in Chains cover you did, “Brother,” because I believe there&#8217;s a direct Alice in Chains connection there.</strong></p>
<p>Yes, my good friend, Michael Rozon is a pedal steel player for Jerry Cantrell, and he and I have worked in other capacities. He&#8217;s produced me in the Beauty in Chaos project, which is the president [Michael Ciravolo] of Schechter Guitars’ project. I found out that he plays pedal steel and I was like, “Oh my God, dude, you&#8217;ve <em>got</em> to get on this record!” We did a session one day and it came out insane and I just loved the outcome. I felt it was the organic thread that the record needed to bring you back to some sense of the Wild West.</p>
<p><strong>You mentioned Tommy Hatz, your producer, and it&#8217;s my understanding that when you first started working together, you didn&#8217;t necessarily plan on making a whole album.</strong></p>
<p>No, we didn’t! I met Tommy through Schechter Guitars as well. He started showing me some demos back in 2020, and then he wanted to do something like my song “Starfish. He sent me “Perfect Storm,” and that became a whole soul/pop song and it didn&#8217;t even go in that direction. I was like, “I want a choir; I want <em>everything</em>,” and it became what it is today. It&#8217;s funny that from there I was like, “Well, let&#8217;s just keep writing and see where it goes,” and at some point we&#8217;re like, “Um, think this is an album. I think we&#8217;re writing an album right now.&#8221; And we just kept going.</p>
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<p><strong>There are a couple of other songs I want to ask you about. I feel like the single “Rhea” is an especially important centerpiece of the album.</strong></p>
<p>It is. When I was writing it, Tom goes to me, “Is this song about your mom?” And I was like, “I don&#8217;t know. I&#8217;m not really sure.” Because I thought it was about my breakup really, because there&#8217;s a parallel to being lonely — it&#8217;s like, there are some people that make you feel more lonely when you&#8217;re with them than when you&#8217;re alone. And that reminded me of when my mom passed away, because there is a strange loneliness that overtakes you when you lose a parent at a young age, and it never really goes away. It&#8217;s like a hole that&#8217;s driven into the center of your chest, and you can&#8217;t ever fill that hole, so what you do is just try to live as deeply and passionately as possible. And over time, that hole closes. You&#8217;ll be reminded of what that feeling was, but then there&#8217;s people that <em>really</em> make you feel more fucking lonely than you actually should feel. It was a reminder to me that I need to surround myself with people who never make me feel alone. And so, “Rhea” is a broader question of “Do we belong together? Are we forced to be alone out here forever? Am I alone by my own design, or do I get to choose whether I&#8217;m whole already?” Rhea is one of Saturn&#8217;s moons, and poetically, all the moons are tidily locked around a planet, so their back is always to the darkness and one is always to the light. So, it&#8217;s like you&#8217;re finally getting to see your moon from both sides. I guess that&#8217;s a funny way to see it. It&#8217;s like having a full, 360 understanding of how I don&#8217;t have to have my back anymore to the sun, or I don&#8217;t have to have my back to the darkness anymore. I can turn around. I don&#8217;t have to be locked into this position. It&#8217;s my choice. I&#8217;m a quantum object in this field, and I can make the decision to feel whole again.</p>
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<p><strong>I also want to discuss “Slumber Party,” because you’ve said before that that song “saved your life.”</strong></p>
<p>“Slumber Party” is literally just a song about waking up for manipulation. A lot of people don&#8217;t really know a lot about manipulative people and how they move through the world and understanding the nuance of how cognitive dissonance works. And “Slumber Party” really attacks about how our <em>body</em> is smart enough to tell us when something is wrong. So, it&#8217;s like, what if we never leave the state of slumber we once believe was our reality? It&#8217;s like, you don&#8217;t really understand how much control you have over your own mind until you&#8217;re pushed to the point of no return, where you&#8217;re at like the ledge of the cliff and you&#8217;re like, “Oh shit, I&#8217;m alive. I&#8217;m here. I&#8217;m breathing. I can fight back!” It’s being pushed to the edge of a cliff and then realizing at that final moment: “I can wake up and say no and ‘fuck you.’ I can leave this place.&#8221; I think we&#8217;re in a state of cognitive dissonance in many situations in our lives where we comply with things that harm us because it&#8217;s a familiar feeling. We&#8217;ve been abused in the past and we conflate love with abuse and think that they can be one thing. But they&#8217;re not, and they should never be in one sentence together. So, “Slumber Party” is telling you to love yourself more and just show up and just say no. You don&#8217;t have to RSVP. You can just bounce.</p>
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<p><strong>Well, obviously there was a lot to unpack with this record, and it was over the course of several years and going back into things of your childhood. I imagine it was a very healing process to make this record. What was the biggest thing you learned about yourself during the making of <em>American Wasteland</em>?</strong></p>
<p>I would say that I should have been kinder to myself. I should have loved myself more. I should have realized my power and not have it usurped by certain people around me who maybe were opportunistic. I try to implement a sense of care to the people around me, but sometimes it&#8217;s at my own expense. And I think that I&#8217;ve learned over the years that I&#8217;m never going to sacrifice my peace ever again. And so, <em>American Wasteland</em> is my peace. It is the one thing that saved me, because it reminded me that I already have all the power I need within me and I don&#8217;t have to look elsewhere to create or build that reality. It exists in my heart and my soul already.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[The Eldest Daughter, the debut album by Florida-born indie-folk artist Gatlin, might have been ever-so-slightly overshadowed by Taylor Swift’s The Life of Showgirl, which coincidentally featured a song called “Eldest Daughter” and was released on the same day. But rest assured, this fearless (no pun intended) singer-songwriter, who just released her follow-up EP Pipe Dream, [&#8230;]]]></description>
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<p><em>The Eldest Daughter</em>, the debut album by Florida-born indie-folk artist Gatlin, might have been ever-so-slightly overshadowed by Taylor Swift’s <em>The Life of Showgirl</em>, which coincidentally featured a song called “Eldest Daughter” and was released on the same day. But rest assured, this fearless (no pun intended) singer-songwriter, who just released her follow-up EP <em>Pipe Dream</em>, very much has her own unique voice.</p>
<p>Inspired by her conservative Christian upbringing in Florida (as, you guessed it, the oldest of three children), and how she has processed and made peace with her childhood trauma since coming out eight years ago (she even re-read her teenage diaries during the recording process), Gatlin Thornton’s album is heavy at times. “I think that Christianity and my relationship with God was so tied into my identity, and growing up, I was very much taught that I was born bad. I was born evil, and God is the only thing that is good. That&#8217;s a really damaging way to grow up,” she explains, sitting with Licorice Pizza Records’ LPTV in Studio City right before her in-store performance. “I had to learn how to trust myself and believe that I was good.”</p>
<p>But <em>The Eldest Daughter</em> is also laced with wry humor, whether it’s the clever play on words in “Florida Man” (the comma is silent); the diaristic, nostalgic memories of Gatlin’s first girl-crush in “If She Was a Boy”; the rebellious declaration in “Jesus Christ &amp; Country Clubs” when she sings, “I’m going to hell because girls are fun”; or that moment in “Man of the House” when she proclaims, “My cats can be gay if they want to!”</p>
<p>And that humor definitely comes through in Gatlin’s charming and candid LPTV interview (as seen in the video above and Q&amp;A below), in which she opens up about undergoing ketamine therapy; dissociating during interviews (thankfully she didn’t during this one!); the whole “Florida Man” viral phenomenon; going (temporarily) no-contact with her family; donning empowering male drag in her music video; her ever-shifting relationship with spirituality; and, yes, gay cats.</p>
<p><strong>LPTV: I&#8217;d love to start by asking about the significance of the title <em>The</em> <em>Eldest Daughter</em>, because I know you grew up in a conservative, religious family.</strong></p>
<p><strong>GATLIN:</strong> I think I was in this process of really doing a lot of healing with my family dynamic, and really a lot of things were coming to light. And so, naturally, I&#8217;m going to write about it.. And everything I was writing about was pointing towards being an eldest daughter and all of the pressures that come along with that.</p>
<p><strong>What was your family’s dynamic, in terms the pressures you felt as the oldest of three kids?</strong></p>
<p>I felt like in a lot of ways the truth-teller, the protector, another parent.</p>
<p><strong>Did you feel you had more expectations placed on you, because you were the leader of the pack? When you&#8217;re the eldest, you&#8217;re the kid that does everything first.</strong></p>
<p>Or you&#8217;re the guinea pig!</p>
<p><strong>Yes! And also, parents are usually much harder and stricter with the oldest child. By the time the later kids come around, they&#8217;re much more chill.</strong></p>
<p>It is crazy, the difference. I think also because when [the oldest is] female and the baby [of the family] is male, the gender of it all… yeah, there was a big difference. I wasn&#8217;t allowed to have sleepovers, or what I was consuming in media was just very strict, versus with the baby it was free reign.</p>
<p><strong>I do want to get into specific songs on the record that address your childhood, but in general, what were you revisiting or maybe even reinterpreting when you were making this album?</strong></p>
<p>I think it really started with my queerness and figuring that out. And then it was not only an issue with my family, my queerness, but then to talk about it publicly. It was almost more of a big deal when I decided I wanted to start <em>talking</em> about it and letting other people know! Because I think that&#8217;s a Southern culture thing: having this presentation of being perfect and everything is all put together, and not wanting the judgment from other people. So, it felt like I had to just full send it and go all the way there, of being honest and being open publicly in my art and my songs.</p>
<p><strong>When did you come out?</strong></p>
<p>When I was 19. Now I&#8217;m 27.</p>
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<p><strong>So, it was relatively later in life for you.</strong></p>
<p>Yeah. And it was <em>bisexual</em>. I came out as, “Oh, I have a crush on this girl.” But even at the time, I was like, &#8220;<em>But</em> I&#8217;m not going to do anything about it,” because I was still in the church. And so, it was very interesting, the way that I even presented it to my family and my community. It was like, “Everyone start praying for me! I have feelings for a girl!” It took me a really long time to process it and be OK with it myself. And then I was still dating men, so I think maybe my family would view it as I only came out two years ago, because that was when I was really [started] dating women.</p>
<p><strong>Did they think it was a phase?</strong></p>
<p>Yes. And obviously it wasn&#8217;t a phase!</p>
<p><strong>Where do they stand with all this now?</strong></p>
<p>It&#8217;s a process. I think they&#8217;ve come a long way from when it started. The song on my album “Love Me” is a song to my mom, kind of about right when I came out and she was saying extremely hurtful things. It has come a long way since then, but I still am struggling with it, because I do think that there is a difference between <em>tolerating</em> something and <em>celebrating</em> something about someone. I want this part of me to be <em>celebrated</em>.</p>
<p><strong>How did your mother react to “Love Me”? I assume she&#8217;s heard it and knows it&#8217;s about her?</strong></p>
<p>Yeah, I did show [my family] all of the music before it came out. It’s a hard thing that we&#8217;ve been having to navigate, because for me, this is my story and I&#8217;m just trying to be honest and it&#8217;s my way to process. I was like, “I&#8217;m not trying to hurt you through this!” But I think she did take it as hard to hear.</p>
<p><strong>You mentioned this crush that you had on a girl, which was sort of your sexual awakening. The song “If She Was a Boy” is about that. Tell me about that real-life experience.</strong></p>
<p>I wrote that [two years] ago, but from the perspective of 19-year-old me, when I was in that place of “I have feelings for a girl, everyone start praying.”</p>
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<p><strong>Did you <em>really</em> want to “pray the gay way”?</strong></p>
<p>Oh, man. Yeah. I truly believed that if I acted on that [crush], I would go to hell. And so, it was a product of the environment I grew up in, and <em>was</em> in. I was living in Nashville [at that point]. I was at a Christian school and surrounded by other Christian kids and deep in the church. I grew up Baptist, and then we went to an evangelical Presbyterian church. It was very much: “Go spread the word of God, go convert everyone.” It was fear-based. I didn&#8217;t want anyone to go to hell.</p>
<p><strong>This seems like it was traumatic, and yet you seem very untraumatized. You&#8217;re sort of laughing and joking as you talk about it.</strong></p>
<p>I think maybe that&#8217;s just my way of coping with it. I&#8217;ve done a lot of work about all of this. I&#8217;m currently doing ketamine therapy. It&#8217;s really rocking my world.</p>
<p><strong>I don&#8217;t know if you ever acted upon that crush at age 19, or if that woman knows about it. But I do believe I&#8217;ve read that you wrote about her in your diaries, and it was finding and re-reading those diaries — and in the process rediscovering your 19-year-old self — that spurred much of this album.</strong></p>
<p>Yeah, because that was kind of the first moment when I began to really <em>question</em>. Maybe it was because I wasn&#8217;t living in Florida anymore; I was in Nashville. I felt in the space to start questioning. Before I was like, &#8220;Well, I&#8217;m as religious as it comes,” but I finally had the space to start questioning these feelings, and then that just stirred up kind of an entire deconstruction of faith, of politics, of what my family dynamic was, of gender. That was the catalyst.</p>
<p><strong>Is it weird when you visit home? Is it one of those cliché situations of awkwardly being at the dinner table with people who don&#8217;t share the same beliefs you have now?</strong></p>
<p>Yeah. I mean, I think a lot of people are having a hard time because of the political climate right now. [I didn’t go] home for the holidays [last] year. It&#8217;s my first time not going home for the holidays, but the beautiful thing about it is I have this chosen family and a beautiful community of friends and the queer community. I had a wonderful Friendsgiving and there was just so much love and acceptance.</p>
<p><strong>I do think the whole notion of chosen family is very important. I assume you&#8217;re not religious anymore, at least not the religion you were raised in, but are you still spiritual, or do you still have some kind of faith in your own way? How do you define your faith, or are you just completely agnostic or atheist now?</strong></p>
<p>Thank you for asking that! I love talking about it! I&#8217;m definitely very spiritual. I&#8217;m kind of like, re-finding God. For a while I had to separate from it, because there was a lot of pain attached to God. But it <em>wasn&#8217;t</em> God — it was <em>people</em> and <em>humans</em> that would corrupt it. I&#8217;m kind of in my journey of finding out what [faith] looks like. I&#8217;ve been in a lot of discovery, looking into different religions, reading the Bible again and seeing what I feel about this, now that things have kind of calmed. I think I&#8217;m just searching right now.</p>
<p><strong>Is ketamine helping with that? I don’t know much about ketamine therapy.</strong></p>
<p>I&#8217;ve been seeing this therapist for like eight months. I went to this place, got prescribed the medicine. We refer to it as “medicine.” It&#8217;s been very helpful for me. I don&#8217;t think it&#8217;s for everyone, but she had suggested it. I think it&#8217;s just been a way for me to reprocess things or create new neural pathways, because I can <em>logically</em> know something so well, but my <em>body</em> would still react. Even this process of doing interviews for the record and talking about the way that I grew up and family things… I was doing a podcast [recently] and I fully dissociated mid-podcast. And so, it&#8217;s just like, “<em>Oh</em>, there&#8217;s still work to do.”</p>
<p><strong>I hope you don&#8217;t dissociate during this interview! Actually, you&#8217;re welcome to dissociate if that&#8217;s what you want to do, but hopefully you’re OK with how this interview is going so far. Do you mind me asking what the podcast question was that triggered that response?</strong></p>
<p>I think it was just something about my parents and what they thought about me. And I just was like, &#8220;<em>Annnnnd</em>… I&#8217;m now no longer in my body.&#8221; It’s a body-keeps-score thing. The body remembers.</p>
<p><strong>Well, if anything I ask bothers you to the point that it would make you disassociate, please let me know.</strong></p>
<p>It would have a few months ago, but I have done a lot of work and I&#8217;m much better.</p>
<p><strong>I’m glad to hear that, because as I get into asking about specific track, we’re obviously going to get deeper into this. I did want to ask about “Jesus Christ &amp; Country Clubs,” because I love the line :“I&#8217;m going to hell because girls are fun.” That&#8217;s a great line.</strong></p>
<p>I think that song is more me being a little bit angry. Growing up, I wasn&#8217;t really allowed to feel anger, or I didn&#8217;t <em>feel</em> like I was allowed to be angry. It felt good to get some of that out. It’s about hypocritical Christianity, like MAGA Christianity, and how the Jesus <em>I</em> knew wouldn&#8217;t be acting like this. It was really therapeutic for me to write that and to feel <em>angry</em> about it.</p>
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<p><strong>Which song on the record is the most therapeutic for you to perform live?</strong></p>
<p>That one&#8217;s really fun. I feel like at shows, that&#8217;s the one that people really respond to and get excited about. “Love Me” is one that I have not been able to sing live without crying. I&#8217;m very deeply uncomfortable, but I think that is a <em>good</em> thing. It also has allowed for people who are there at the show to make me feel safe and make me feel seen. And I think it makes the space feel very safe.</p>
<p><strong>Another track, “The Hill,” is about religion as well. There’s a line in it about how walking away from Christianity was the greatest loss of your life and the hardest thing you ever had to do. I imagine that&#8217;s another cathartic and/or difficult song to perform live.</strong></p>
<p>Yeah. I think that Christianity and my relationship with God was so tied into my identity, and growing up, I was very much taught that I was born bad. I was born evil, and God is the only thing that is good. That&#8217;s a really damaging way to grow up. And so, leaving that, I had to relearn… not <em>relearn</em>, but I had to learn how to trust myself and believe that I was good. All of these things that were very difficult to do. It felt like I was completely losing myself. And I think for a lot of people who grew up in Christianity, that&#8217;s why it&#8217;s so hard to question it or to walk away from it, because you have grown up thinking that’s how life is. And then, also, my whole family is in it. And church is also such a wonderful place for community; I had so many friends and I felt so loved. So, it was a really hard thing to walk away from. And yeah, that was a painful song to write, but I think a good one. It phrases it almost in a Stockholm Syndrome kind of way.</p>
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<p><strong>When you talk about the community, did you lose a lot of friends or family members when you came out and changed the way you were living? Did you lose a lot of support? Did you have to make new friends?</strong></p>
<p>It was a process, like a year&#8217;s process. I was living in Nashville at the time and a lot of my friends were all kind of coming out of it at the same time, which was really nice and felt less isolating. Family relationships changed, definitely. And that’s sad and heartbreaking, but also OK.</p>
<p><strong>You do approach all this with a bit of humor, like I said before. You have a song called “Florida Man,” which I love because if you ever read <em>The Onion</em> or even the real news, there’s always a headline along the lines of, “Florida Man Does Some Crazy Shit.”</strong></p>
<p>Have you done the thing where you put your birthday and then “Florida Man”? Google your birthday and “Florida Man,” and there&#8217;s always going to be something!</p>
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<p><strong>Ha! So yes, Florida has a bit of a reputation that&#8217;s probably somewhat deserved. But there&#8217;s a comma, at least an implied comma, in your song title, because you basically say, “I&#8217;m never going back to Florida, man!” It’s a fun play on words. So, tell me about this song, because there&#8217;s a lot of humor, but also a lot of anger in this too. It&#8217;s kind of like an F-U Florida, or at least that&#8217;s how I&#8217;m interpreting it.</strong></p>
<p>I think now, retrospectively, I view “Florida Man” as this metaphor of almost who I was when I was living there, playing my role in my family dynamic and not being who I was and not questioning and being in the closet and all of these things, I kind of view it as, “OK, I&#8217;m never going back to that.” Through honestly writing this album, I kind of got to reclaim Florida as mine.</p>
<p><strong>I hope anyone reading or watching this interview who’s unfamiliar with your music doesn’t think <em>The Eldest Daughter</em> is an entirely a sad, mopey, angry record! So, I’ll cite another example of your lyrical humor, in “Man of the House.” My favorite line in the album is from that song: “My cats can be gay if they want to.” I&#8217;m all for gay cats. I&#8217;m all for cats living their truth.</strong></p>
<p>Let the cats be gay!</p>
<p><strong>Yes! But what is “Man of the House” really about? Because that&#8217;s a loaded term — patriarchy, gender roles, all that.</strong></p>
<p>Yeah, I was kind of claiming that for myself. In the visualizer I did, I was in male drag. I had a beard and the camo and I felt <em>awesome</em>; I feel like it unlocked something in me. When I wrote it, I was living in an apartment by my own, by myself, and paying the bills from my music, which was wild. And at the time I wasn&#8217;t talking to my parents, because you go through breaks, or at least I do with them.</p>
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<p><strong>Are you talking to them now?</strong></p>
<p>No, not right now.</p>
<p><strong>Oh, I&#8217;m sorry.</strong></p>
<p>It&#8217;s OK. So yeah, I think it was the first time that I was like, “OK, I&#8217;m a little bit on my own. Let me figure this out.” I just felt <em>powerful</em>. It was a time of my life when I was like, “I&#8217;m a strong person!” So, I wrote “Man of the House” and I was like, “I get to live by my rules. My cats, if they want to be gay, can be gay!”</p>
<p><strong><em>Are</em> your cats gay?</strong></p>
<p>One of them definitely is gay. For sure, gay. My partner says that I project a little bit. Like, I&#8217;m almost forcing them to be gay, when they might not be.</p>
<p><strong>You’ve just got to let your kids, even your furry kids, be who they want to be, whether they&#8217;re gay or not. That’s one thing we’ve learned one thing from this interview! I also want to ask about “Soho House Valet,” because your press release called it the “north star” of <em>The Eldest Daughter</em>. It’s about a very specific conversation you had with a family member, I assume at Soho House…</strong></p>
<p>I wrote that a week after I had this f fight with my dad walking into Soho House Warehouse in Downtown L.A., and I wrote it to process that. I was very honest in a way that I hadn&#8217;t in my writing before. I viewed the song as, “Well, this is for <em>me</em>. No one else is going to hear it. So, who cares? I&#8217;ll just say everything.” And then I sat with it for a while and I was like, “You know what? I think I <em>do</em> want to put this out. And I want to make an <em>entire album</em> that is this honest and is for myself.” I guess why it&#8217;s the north star. It was like the catalyst of, “OK, I want to start making music in this way.”</p>
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<p><strong>Do you mind me asking why you&#8217;re not speaking with your parents right now?</strong></p>
<p>I think it&#8217;s a rollercoaster. Relationships change. And right now for me, as this album&#8217;s coming out and I&#8217;m talking about it, and there&#8217;s been fights, and the political climate… it&#8217;s just a lot. And I&#8217;m kind of like, one thing at a time. Sometimes space is good for healing as well. When things are really emotionally charged, sometimes it&#8217;s OK to say, “Everyone needs to take a break. Take a break and breathe for a second.”</p>
<p><strong>But even though you have differences of opinion, different political beliefs, different religious beliefs, I understand that your parents always been very supportive of you of being an artist from very young age. And that&#8217;s interesting. Maybe some people would assume they’d be like, “Be a housewife! Don&#8217;t pursue a career!”  But they always encouraged you to be musician.</strong></p>
<p>Yes, and I feel like that’s such a gift, because I&#8217;ve had so many friends who parents were like, “OK, be practical.” And doing music is <em>not</em> practical. It&#8217;s a hard thing to go out and pursue. And especially my parents are not creatives and not in this world, so they didn&#8217;t really understand it, but they were willing to learn with me and figure it out. So, I&#8217;m like, “OK, <em>see</em>? If you can do that with music, then you can do that with me being gay, too!”</p>
<p><strong>Did you always want to play music?</strong></p>
<p>Yeah, when I was young, it was always, &#8220;What do you want to be when you grow up?” And I’d say: “A singer! I want to be a singer. I want to write my songs.” Maybe in middle school I thought I would do something practical, but then in high school I got diagnosed with an anxiety and depressive disorder and I was like, “Music is the only thing that makes me happy.” And I was really supported in that.</p>
<p><strong>So, your parents supported you in your mental health journey and got you help, et cetera?</strong></p>
<p>Yes, they did. So, you see, they&#8217;re not… there&#8217;s <em>so</em> many redeeming qualities. I had a lot of great things in my childhood.</p>
<p><strong>I’m glad to hear that. So, let&#8217;s end things on that positive note. You were obviously unpacking a lot of stuff from your adolescence when making this record that was painful or dark, but there&#8217;s nostalgia on <em>The Eldest Daughter</em> too. What did you revisit that was nice to remember?</strong></p>
<p>I think the last track, “Kissimmee,” which is where I was born. I had gone back to Florida and was able to go out with some queer people and discover so many beautiful people in Florida and be with family in a really positive way. And I was like, “Oh, I have this nostalgia for childhood again!” Coming back and being able to be who I am and really love who I am in Florida, I think was really good for me — because I’d kind of had this view of loving a place so much, but not really being loved <em>by</em> it. Maybe that&#8217;s a generalization, but you can find pockets and find people anywhere.</p>
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<p><strong>My last question is, what advice do you have for people who are going through something similar — whether it&#8217;s coming out, or just in some way breaking away from their upbringing <em>—</em> about they can be as grounded as you seem to be now?</strong></p>
<p>Oh, wow, thank you! … I think being honest with yourself and learning how to love yourself is such an important thing. And I think I was able to do that by spending a lot of time by myself and doing a lot of work, but also finding community and finding people who celebrate you for exactly who you are. And it doesn&#8217;t need to be a lot. I think that has made all the difference with me — just having my few friends who are like, “I see you. I love you. And I&#8217;m here for you no matter what.”</p>
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		<title>40+ years later, the fun keeps happening: Frankie Clarke remakes the Candy music video where her parents Gilby and Daniella first met</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[When rocker Frankie Clarke (Frankie and the Studs, the Gourmandizers, Los Frankies) and her friend Kevin Preston (Prima Donna, Green Day) recently covered Candy’s “Whatever Happened to Fun,” they weren’t just unearthing a criminally underappreciated ‘80s L.A. powerpop gem. They weren’t even merely tipping their rakish hats to Frankie’s famous dad, Gilby, who played in [&#8230;]]]></description>
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<p>When rocker Frankie Clarke (Frankie and the Studs, the Gourmandizers, Los Frankies) and her friend Kevin Preston (Prima Donna, Green Day) recently covered Candy’s “Whatever Happened to Fun,” they weren’t just unearthing a criminally underappreciated ‘80s L.A. powerpop gem. They weren’t even merely tipping their rakish hats to Frankie’s famous dad, Gilby, who played in Candy years before he got his big break with Guns N’ Roses.</p>
<p>Frankie’s remake was in fact a true full-circle, cross-generational moment… because if it weren’t for “Whatever Happened to Fun,” Frankie would literally not exist.</p>
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<p>Gilby and Frankie’s mother, future fashion mogul Daniella Clarke, actually met on the set of the “Whatever Happened to Fun” music video, and what transpired was a storybook rock romance that has defied all odds and lasted more than four decades. It just might be the cutest rock ‘n’ roll cute-meet tale of all time. And it all started in front of that Hollywood Blvd. mural, right next to the infamous Playmates lingerie emporium.</p>
<p>Daniella and her two younger siblings were visiting from South Africa, spending the summer with their Los Angeles-based father, and were doing some Hollywood sight-seeing when they stumbled upon Candy’s video shoot on July 19, 1985. “I saw a crowd of people standing around and I asked, ‘What&#8217;s going on?’ And they said, ‘Oh, this is a band filming their video for MTV,’” Daniella recalls. “Then I saw the guitar player standing on top of a convertible. He had ripped jeans with fishnet stockings underneath, tons of black eyeliner, and hair sticking up in every direction. And for some reason, I thought, ‘<em>That&#8217;s it. That&#8217;s my guy</em>.’ Everybody else just kind of melted away, and I only saw him. And I stared at him. I think I stared at him so hard, with like, like <em>piercing</em> eyes, that he stared back.”</p>
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<p>Gilby did indeed notice Daniella. “She was on my side of the stage, and I kept seeing this pretty girl smiling. She just caught my attention,” he says.</p>
<p>“We locked eyes. I saw him, and he saw me,” says Daniella. “And then my dad said, ‘OK, that&#8217;s enough. We&#8217;re going to go get ice cream.’ So, we left.”</p>
<p>It was then that Gilby sprang into action and dispatched Candy’s makeup artist to chase after the mysterious accidental video extra who’d caught his eye. “I said, ‘Go get that girl. <em>Go find that girl</em>. I want to say hi to her.’”</p>
<p>“The makeup artist from the set came up to me at the ice cream shop, tapped me on the shoulder, and said, ‘Excuse me, but you were just at the video shoot, and the guitar player there wants to talk to you.’ Well, I ran as fast as my legs would take me! I left my dad and my brother and my sister and ran right back to the set,” Daniella laughs.</p>
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<p>The pair’s first meeting that fateful afternoon was actually a tad awkward, because not only was that makeup artist Gilby’s ex-girlfriend, but Gilby had invited <em>several</em> love interests, past or present, to the shoot. (“Oh, there were so many girls there that were all saying they were his girlfriends,” Daniella chuckles.)</p>
<p>“Back then when you got to do your MTV video, it was a big deal, and you called all your friends. I called all my <em>girl</em>friends — and they were all there!” Gilby chuckles. “Because it was a big event for us, there were a lot of other girls there. So, I was kind of hiding from those other girls, while meeting this new girl.”</p>
<p>And that wasn’t the only awkward aspect of Gilby and Daniella’s first encounter. There was also the matter of Daniella’s age. “The first thing Gilby said to me was, ‘What&#8217;s your name?’ And I said, ‘Daniella.’ And he goes, ‘Daniella, you&#8217;re very pretty. <em>How old are you</em>?’ And of course, I lied,” Daniella giggles. “I knew if I [answered honestly], he would never talk to me. The lie just flew out.”</p>
<p>“She right away said she was 18. But she was <em>not</em> 18,” says Gilby. “She was <em>16</em>!”</p>
<p>It would take several years before Gilby would learn the truth (“We started dating, and the lie just kept perpetuating itself,” says Daniella), but regardless, the two were instantly smitten and inseparable. And this would not be the only time that the infatuated Daniella’s impulsiveness and determination would keep the couple together.</p>
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<p><script src="//www.instagram.com/embed.js" async=""></script>“When it was time for me to go back to South Africa [at the end of the summer] and my dad dropped us off at the airport, I was already dating Gilby and I was in love, head over heels. I didn&#8217;t want to go back. But my mom was expecting us to come back,” Daniella recalls. “My dad dropped us off at the airport. I looked at my brother and my sister and was just like, ‘I&#8217;m not going with you. You guys are going to get on the plane without me. I&#8217;m going to stay here with Gilby.’ My brother and my sister were like, ‘Mom&#8217;s going to kill you!’ And I was like, &#8220;Well, yeah, she probably will. But I&#8217;m not going home.’ And I took off. Oh my God, my poor mom went to the airport to pick up three kids — and only got <em>two</em>! I swear I could hear my mom screaming all the way from South Africa. She was <em>so</em> mad.”</p>
<p>Daniella’s father wasn’t too thrilled either. “I called my dad and said, ‘Dad, I&#8217;m still in America.’ And he goes, ‘What do you <em>mean</em>, you&#8217;re still in America?’ And I go, ‘I&#8217;m still in California.’ And he goes, &#8220;What do you <em>mean</em>, you&#8217;re still in California?’” Daniella laughingly recalls. “And I said, ‘I didn&#8217;t leave. I&#8217;m staying with Gilby.’ And he said, ‘Are you out of your mind?’”</p>
<p>Eventually Daniella’s “furious” parents realized that their defiant daughter was never getting on that plane. “I told them, “Gilby and I are going to be together. If you make me go back, I&#8217;m going to run away. You&#8217;re not going to be able to keep me away from him. I will always run away, and I&#8217;ll always be with him. So, either you know where I am and I&#8217;m with him and I&#8217;ll enroll in school and I&#8217;ll get a job and I&#8217;ll take care of myself, or if you force me to go home, you&#8217;ll never see me again,’” Daniella recalls. “And they had no choice.”</p>
<p>And so, Daniella remained in L.A., but even though Gilby “would take [her] to school and pick [her] up,” he <em>still</em> hadn’t figured out her real age. “Meanwhile, I thought he was Elvis and I was Priscilla,” Daniella chuckles.</p>
<p>“I didn&#8217;t even find that out until we got married, when we went to do the marriage certificate. All those years, I had no idea,” Gilby insists.</p>
<p>“We went to the courthouse to go get our marriage license, and I figured, ‘Now is the time I better come clean. I better tell him.’ At this point, I was 21. We’d been together a long time already. He thought I was 23,” Daniella explains. “At first I said, ‘I have something to tell you…’ And oh, the poor guy&#8217;s face! I mean, he went <em>white</em>. He probably thought I was pregnant or who knows what. Then I said, ‘I&#8217;m not 23. I&#8217;m actually two years younger. I&#8217;ve been lying to you the whole time.’ And he was like, ‘Oh my God, I had a feeling, because you always had some stupid story about why you didn&#8217;t have your I.D.’ But at that time, he was already a pretty well-established musician around town, and we never walked in through the front door [of clubs and bars]. We always went in through the back. So, I never had to show I.D.!”</p>
<p>The Clarkes’ young marriage faced another challenge very early on, when — right after their 1991 rock ‘n’ roll wedding took place at Madame Wong’s West, on the legendary punk club’s last day of operation — Gilby received a job offer that had the potential to take his career to a stratospheric new level, but might also tear the newlyweds apart.</p>
<p>“After our honeymoon, we got back and went into our apartment, checked our answering machine, and there was a message. It was Slash, asking Gilby to audition for Guns N’ Roses, saying that they needed a new guitar player,” says Daniella. “At the time I thought it was a joke! Next thing I knew, two weeks after I married him, Gilby was getting ready to go on this huge tour.”</p>
<p>The opportunity was obviously one that Gilby could not refuse. Candy had never really taken off. “We were trying to do something that nobody else was doing at the time, and it was really hard. I think we had three record deals before we put out a record — we were signed to an independent, we were signed to MCA, and then Polygram — and by the time we got a record deal, the whole scene had changed,” Gilby explains. His next band, Kill for Thrills, amassed a sizable local following and released one album on MCA… but Guns N’ Roses were literally one of the biggest bands in the world at the time.</p>
<p>“I was like, ‘Oh, <em>shit</em>. What does this mean for me? Am I going to get left behind here? Is he going to run off with some supermodel?’ Because that&#8217;s what happens. I was pretty horrified,” Daniella admits, recalling her reaction to her groom’s new GNR gig. She also remembers wondering if her disapproving mom and dad, who’d always thought her relationship with Gilby was doomed, would be proven right. “My parents were like, ‘He&#8217;s a musician! He&#8217;s got a girl in every port! Are you crazy? You&#8217;re just one of a thousand girls. This is never going to work. He&#8217;s going to cheat on you!’ But luckily for me, Gilby is a meat-and-potatoes guy, a good ol’ boy from Ohio, and he was like, ‘The only way this works is if you come with me the whole time.’ And I was young enough, didn&#8217;t have that much going on at the time, that I was able to do that. That was a blessing.”</p>
<p>When Daniella joined her Gilby and GNR on the road, she learned to deal with the insecurities that any rock wife would understandably have. “There&#8217;s constantly chicks around, like a <em>plethora</em> of women. And that was tricky, especially at my young age. But as I got older and settled into who I was, and what our relationship was, and the trust that we have in each other, it didn&#8217;t bother me anymore,” she shrugs.</p>
<p>A decade later, the Clarkes’ lives drastically changed again, this time when Daniella’s career took off with her multi-million-dollar denim brand Frankie B., which set the trend for super-stretch, super-low-rise, super-sexy jeans in the Y2K era. “That was a very tricky time in our marriage, because I had spent most of my years together with Gilby on the side of the stage, watching him and cheering him on, and then all of a sudden I wasn&#8217;t able to go out on the road as much, because now we had a daughter and I had a career,” Daniella says of that new power imbalance. “But in a partnership, you&#8217;re there for each other when you need each other. So, when he was out on the road, I was there for him. And then when I was doing my work, he was at home helping me. And we worked it out somehow, some way, by hook or by crook. My career was going in one direction, his career was going in another direction, we met super-young, both high school dropouts, et cetera, et cetera. It shouldn’t have worked. But we always figured it out.”</p>
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As for how they’ve stayed together in an industry where most rock marriages barely last as long as one album’s promotional cycle, Gilby says matter-of-factly, “Honestly, there is no secret. It&#8217;s just things change. Things that were important when we were first together aren&#8217;t important now. You just have to adapt, and I think more than anything, you need to put that person first. It’s about making her a priority. I mean, a gig&#8217;s a gig, but we just had to make our marriage a priority. And then we kept that throughout my whole career — and <em>her</em> career.”</p>
<p>“The ‘secret’ is we just love each other and want to be together, period. That&#8217;s it,” Daniella adds. “We just wanted to be together, and we knew that the most important thing was that we stayed together throughout it all and prioritized each other. I describe our relationships sometimes as a seesaw: We always balance each other out, because the ultimate goal is making sure our family works. So, he was always my strength and my supporter, and I was always his.”</p>
<p>“I mean, look, it hasn’t always been roses,” says Gilby (no pun intended). “There have been hard times. But we made it through somehow, and now this is the good stuff.” And as the Clarkes’ marital fun continues, he looks back on Candy’s memorable “Whatever Happened to Fun” video shoot and says, “It was a beautiful day. We’ve got a daughter, and we&#8217;ve had a life together. It&#8217;s been pretty good.”</p>
<p><em>Above, watch Frankie Clarke and Kevin Preston’s “Whatever Happened to Fun” remake — which includes video scenes shot in front of that iconic Hollywood Blvd. mural and at the San Fernando Valley’s equally iconic record store Licorice Pizza, as well as cameos by Gilby and his original Candy bandmates. Below, watch Daniella and fellow rock wife Barbaranne Wylde’s live &#8220;Honest AF&#8221; podcast taping at Licorice Pizza Records, during which Daniella shares more adorable details about her and Gilby’s Walk-of-Fame star-crossed first meeting.</em></p>
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		<title>Kyle Gass talks live album, Tenacious D’s future, and the year Tenacious D won the Best Metal Grammy over Slipknot, Motorhead, Mastodon, and Anthrax: ‘They were so unhappy about it’</title>
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<p>Veteran musical comic (or is it comical musician?) Kyle Gass is reclining on a velour ‘70s sofa at Licorice Pizza Records, getting ready for his eponymous band’s very first in-store concert, live in Studio City, celebrating the release of their new release, <em>Live in Palmdale</em>.</p>
<p>But since it’s Grammy week in Los Angeles, Gass’s rare pre-show chat with the store’s LPTV (only his second interview in the past 18 months, after he recently broke his silence via <em>Rolling Stone</em>) inevitably turns to that historic night at the Grammy Awards — when Gass’s other band, Tenacious D, were up for Best Metal Performance. It was an especially stacked category that year, with the D’s fellow nominees being rock titans Slipknot, Motorhead, Mastodon, and Anthrax.</p>
<p>“And who do you think <em>won</em>?” Gass laughs, incredulously. “And [the other nominees] were <em>so</em> unhappy about it. Oh, they were <em>not</em> happy at all. Who were these ‘punk comedy dudes’ coming in, ‘stealing our hard rock?’ But it was a great track.”</p>
<p>Yes, that’s right: In a total upset, Tenacious D’s “The Last in Line,” a Dio cover recorded for the Ronnie James Dio tribute album <em>This Is Your Life</em>, prevailed at the 2015 Grammys. One might have assumed that the D’s fellow nominees — particularly Anthrax, who were nominated for their own contribution to that same Dio tribute compilation — would’ve actually been totally fine with this result. After all, it was <em>technically</em> a win for both the D <em>and</em> the late, great Dio, right?</p>
<p>“No, they didn&#8217;t see it that way,” Gass chuckles. (Anthrax&#8217;s Scott Ian, for what it&#8217;s worth, <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZQ2sVO3NsAQ" target="_blank">had more of a problem with the Recording Academy </a>than with Tenacious D themselves.)</p>
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<p>“I mean, the Grammys are pretty bogus — <em>except</em> when you win, and then it&#8217;s like the greatest thing ever! But come on, the Grammys, they&#8217;re so clueless over there,” Gass continues. He actually thinks that he and his Tenacious D cohort Jack Black, who were “very surprised” to be recognized by the Recording Academy in the Metal category at all, were more deserving at the 2013 Grammys, when their third LP, <em>Rize of the Fenix</em>, was up for Best Comedy Album.</p>
<p>“I think Jimmy Kimmel&#8230; no, who&#8217;s the other guy?… Jimmy Fallon. He won. I thought we were actually better. So, we didn&#8217;t win when I thought we should have won. And then of course, when we <em>shouldn&#8217;t</em> have won, really, because of all those great bands — we did!”</p>
<p>Sadly, Tenacious D were on tour in Europe at the time, so they weren’t able to accept their Grammy in person. This prompts LPTV to suggest that Gass launch an awards-season campaign for the Kyle Gass Band, so that <em>Live in Palmdale</em> can nab a nomination and he can enjoy a full, proper Grammy experience next year. To that, he quips, “Um, is there an award for Best Side-Project?”</p>
<p>Gass has a long list of acting credits (during his wide-ranging LPTV interview, he lightning-rounds about his onscreen debut in a 1988 commercial for the short-lived spinoff soda 7-Up Gold; his film debut in the then-little-known Peter Jackson’s splatter flick <em>Braindead</em>; starring in the Vandals’ cult TV series <em>Fear of a Punk Planet</em>; and his various roles in <em>Elf</em>, <em>Wild Hogs</em>, <em>Seinfeld</em>, and <em>Friends</em>). And the Kyle Gass Band isn’t even his only musical “side-project — he’s also played on and off for the past two decades with the Southern Rock comedy group Trainwreck. But of course, he will always be best known as one half of Tenacious D.</p>
<p>And so, LPTV’s conversation also inevitably turns to questions about the status of that comedy duo, who’ve been on hiatus for the past year and a half. In July 2024, during a Tenacious D concert in Sydney, Gass was surprised with a cake for his 64th birthday onstage, and when Black told him to “make a wish,” he blurted the unplanned, unfortunate comment, “Don&#8217;t miss Trump next time.” (There’d been an assassination attempt on Donald Trump, who was running for a third presidential term, three days earlier.) Despite Gass’s sincere apology on social media for what he called a “highly inappropriate” and “dangerous” joke and “a terrible mistake,” the backlash was so intense and immediate that the Australian tour was cancelled, and all future plans for the band were put on hold. Tenacious D have not been heard from since.</p>
<p>“Read the <em>Rolling Stone</em> [interview]. It&#8217;s all about it,” says a visibly uncomfortable Gass, referring to the above-mentioned exclusive <a href="https://www.rollingstone.com/music/music-features/tenacious-d-kyle-gass-jack-black-donald-trump-interview-1235501791/" target="_blank">he granted the iconic rock magazine</a> just two days before he visited Licorice Pizza. “That&#8217;s my last interview on that [subject].”</p>
<p>Gass understandably has no desire to keep rehashing what went down that night in Syndey, or the subsequent fallout. He’d rather spend his LPTV interview, which he eventually cuts short to grab some preshow grub, cracking wise about blue ice meth (which is apparently popular in Palmdale?), bogus concert albums (<em>Live in Palmdale</em> isn’t one of them. but apparently <em>The Last Waltz</em> is?), or that time he visited Peter Jackson in New Zealand and took a secret passageway to Bilbo Baggins’s Bag End house, as one does.</p>
<p>But he shows no bitterness as he reminisces about the D’s early days, when — after he moved from Northern California to study music at UCLA, realized he didn’t fit in with all the “serious musicians playing piano and violin,” and switched his focus to acting — he met fellow Actors&#8217; Gang theater troupe member Black. And he <em>is</em> willing to vaguely yet optimistically address Tenacious D’s future, saying they’re just “on a break.”</p>
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<p><script src="//www.instagram.com/embed.js" async=""></script>“I&#8217;m actually a lot older, like nine years older, than Jack. But he did a play with us in the Actors’ Gang [in 1986] as kind of a youngster, and he was just a great singer,” says Gass, recalling Tenacious D’s formation. “He was doing these four-track tapes on the TEAC, and I thought, ‘Oh my God, this kid&#8217;s amazing!’ And I was like, ‘’Well, do you play an instrument?’ He didn&#8217;t play an instrument. And I thought, ‘Well, dude, you’ve got to just have rudimentary guitar, if you&#8217;re going to do that.’” Gass offered to teach Black guitar, and he says Black was “a very good student. I remember for three months, he played the same three chords on the guitar, D, A, and E, over and over again. … He actually accused me of not showing him all the <em>hard</em> stuff!”</p>
<p>Eventually, in ‘94, Tenacious D made their official but humble musical debut at the legendarily seedy, now-shuttered DTLA dive Al’s Bar (“It was kind of our CBGB”), where they played their future classic “Tribute” and were approached afterwards by David Cross, who asked them to open for the live cabaret version of <em>Mr. Show</em>. “And the rest is history,” says Gass.</p>
<p>But are Tenacious D history now? Are they broken up? Gass insists that’s not the case. For the time being, he’s keeping busy with projects like the Kyle Gass Band and <em><a href="https://www.youtube.com/guitarings" target="_blank">Guitarings</a></em> (his recently revived guitar-tutorial YouTube series with his longtime “virtuoso” guitarist John Konesky), but he assures fans that the D will rise, or <em>rize</em>, again. Maybe they’ll even win another Grammy someday.</p>
<p>“Listen to <em>Rize of the Fenix</em>. That&#8217;s about us burning up and coming back from the ashes. So, the Fenix will rise again… as long as we&#8217;re alive,” Gass declares. “We&#8217;re buds. [Black] is working on his movies; he&#8217;s got a couple movies coming out. But we have a saying: We will serve no D-wine before it&#8217;s D-time.”</p>
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		<title>The Replacements’ mentor Peter Jesperson on the rebellious legacy of ‘Let It Be’: ‘They didn&#8217;t kiss people&#8217;s asses at record labels. They did quite the opposite. I think that&#8217;s part of what makes people interested in them still.’</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[In May 1980, legendary Minneapolitan music savant Peter Jesperson discovered the Replacements and went on to become their A&#38;R rep, manager, producer, mentor, self-described “babysitter,” and the man sometimes described by fans as the “fifth Replacement” (although he’d humbly rather give that title to guitarist Slim Dunlap). It was a decision that not only changed [&#8230;]]]></description>
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<p>In May 1980, legendary Minneapolitan music savant Peter Jesperson discovered the Replacements and went on to become their A&amp;R rep, manager, producer, mentor, self-described “babysitter,” and the man sometimes described by fans as the “fifth Replacement” (although he’d humbly rather give that title to guitarist Slim Dunlap). It was a decision that not only changed the course of Jesperson’s life (as detailed in his fascinating 2023 memoir, <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Euphoric-Recall-Producer-Executive-Tastemaker/dp/1681342715" target="_blank"><em>Euphoric Recall</em></a>), but changed the course of alternative rock, indie rock, college rock, and rock ‘n’ roll in general.</p>
<p>When Jesperson recently visited Studio City’s Licorice Pizza Records to celebrate the new four-LP deluxe edition of what many critics consider to be the Replacements’ greatest work, their 1984 breakthrough <em>Let It Be</em> (featuring unreleased studio and live recordings, alternate versions, outtakes, and all sorts of ‘Mats goodies), he shared enough stories during his live Q&amp;A to fill a second memoir.</p>
<p>In the video above and the (edited-for-brevity-and-clarity) text below, Jesperson dishes about his first reaction to the band’s 1980 demo tape and why they had few other believers in Minneapolis early on; how they evolved so drastically over the next four years; the band’s disastrous first gig and many other notorious shows, including one that caused Gene Simmons to walk out; Peter Buck’s solo on “I Will Dare” and Bob Stinson’s solo on “Unsatisfied”; the stories behind l “I Will Dare” and other landmark tracks like “Androgynous” and “Unsatisfied”; the stories behind about the <em>Let It Be</em> album title and cover photo; the weird way that the Replacements’ hero Alex Chilton first discovered them; why the Replacements refused to play the music industry game, and why that was both a blessing and a curse; why it took so long for the band to get their due and how frustrating that was, especially for frontman/primary songwriter Paul Westerberg; <em>Let It Be&#8217;</em>s unique appeal to female listeners; the band’s Rock &amp; Roll of Hall of Fame chances; and even a possible ‘Mats biopic, spearheaded by a certain <em>Stranger Things</em> star who just hosted <em>Saturday Night Live</em> nearly 40 years after the band&#8217;s infamous <em>SNL</em> appearance.</p>
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<p><strong>LPTV: A lot of rock scholars cite <em>Let It Be</em> as the Replacements album on which Paul Westerberg came into his own, or very rapidly matured, as a songwriter. I&#8217;d love your insight on that. Was this a conscious thing, like, &#8220;It&#8217;s time to grow up&#8221;? How did that come to be?</strong></p>
<p><strong>PETER JESPERSON:</strong> I think it was a gradual thing. I think Paul was a great songwriter right from the get-go, from the first tape I got. I got a four-song demo in the spring of 1980. He walked into the record store. I&#8217;d never met him before. He handed me a tape. When I listened to it… I&#8217;ve done A&amp;R all my life, or “talent-scouting,” and I don&#8217;t know that I ever had an experience quite like that. It was probably 20, 30 seconds into the first song where I just felt like somebody put my finger in an electrical socket. I actually stopped the tape and rewound it. I was actually at a record store — I managed a record store in Minneapolis [Oar Folkjokeopus], and I was listening to a bunch of demos while I was doing paperwork for the store. And so, as the tape started, I was probably slightly distracted. I thought, “Time to put my pen down and just listen.” And so, I played the first song all over again, and really, my first reaction was that it sounded to me like some kind of modern update on Chuck Berry with dirty words — not that Chuck didn&#8217;t have his share of dirty words at certain points! I was so excited about it. It took me a couple of days to calm down and make sure about my reaction, that I hadn&#8217;t overreacted.</p>
<p>And so, I called a couple days later and I remember a female voice answering the phone; I believe it was his mother. She hands the phone to Paul. I identify myself: “I&#8217;m the guy at the record store he gave the tape to. I really love the tape. Were you thinking about doing an album or a single?&#8221; And there was a long pause and he said, &#8220;You mean you think this shit is worth <em>recording</em>?&#8221; Because at the same time as we had [the record label that Jesperson co-founded] Twin/Tone in motion, I was also DJing at a club where I had some sway with the booking agent, and so a lot of people gave me tapes just to try to get gigs at this club called the Longhorn. It turned out that <em>that&#8217;s</em> why Paul brought me the tape; he was trying to get a gig! But he got a gig and a record deal at the same time.</p>
<blockquote class="twitter-tweet"><p lang="en" dir="ltr">The original demo tape Paul gave to Peter Jesperson back in 1980 (as seen in the Sorry Ma… (Deluxe Edition) booklet). <a href="https://twitter.com/hashtag/TheReplacements?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">#TheReplacements</a> <a href="https://twitter.com/hashtag/SorryMa?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">#SorryMa</a> <a href="https://twitter.com/hashtag/OriginalTapes?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">#OriginalTapes</a> <a href="https://twitter.com/hashtag/DemoTape?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">#DemoTape</a> <a href="https://t.co/mbWhjDtWiU">pic.twitter.com/mbWhjDtWiU</a></p>
<p>&mdash; The Replacements (@TheReplacements) <a href="https://twitter.com/TheReplacements/status/1479113441990242306?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">January 6, 2022</a></p></blockquote>
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<p><strong>I think I&#8217;ve read that the first Replacements gig was, ironically, at a sober club.</strong></p>
<p>Yeah, they&#8217;d never played a real, bona fide rock club before we got together. They were sort of taken under the wing of a band called the Dads, who were a sober band back in the day — the only sober people I knew, to be honest! But they played the Longhorn quite a lot, and they were good guys and a good band. They had taken the Replacements under their wing and they&#8217;d played places in the suburbs like keggers and house parties, but they had gotten a gig in a sober club in downtown Minneapolis in a church. That was actually supposed to be the first [Replacements] gig that I saw. I remember walking up the stairs to the church and there was this kid sitting near the top of the stairs, kind of looking dejected with his head hanging down. As I walked by, he said, &#8220;Are you Pete?&#8221; I said yeah, and he said, &#8220;Well, I&#8217;m Chris. I&#8217;m the drummer. We ain&#8217;t going to play. We got kicked out.” I didn&#8217;t know why initially. And then Paul walked out and I recognized him from the store. He had [late guitarist] Bob Stinson with him, and he introduced me to Bob and said, &#8220;Yeah, they found liquor and pills in our stuff,” and [the concert organizer] was not happy about it. The guy had actually said, &#8220;I&#8217;ll take sure you guys never play Minneapolis again!” — which of course didn&#8217;t happen.</p>
<p><strong>So, they were causing trouble from the start.</strong></p>
<p>Yeah, yeah. It was a funny deal because I think they thought they&#8217;d blown an opportunity. And I hate to admit it, because sobriety or a lack of sobriety is not anything to laugh about, but at the same time when I walked away, I kind of chuckled. They sure didn&#8217;t scare me off.</p>
<p><strong>You had such conviction about this band, but I know a lot of people in the Minneapolis scene were sort of were mocking, like, &#8220;What are you doing with this band with a 13-year-old bass player?&#8221; They didn&#8217;t take the Replacements seriously, but you saw the potential, which manifested itself on <em>Let It Be</em>, from the very start.</strong></p>
<p>It was a slow, growing awareness of their talent, I think. But at the beginning, I was just so knocked out with what I heard. … I remember somebody giving me a hard time about how much I was blabbering about them, and I said, &#8220;You hang on for a second. Someday people are going to be writing books about these guys.&#8221; It was probably inflated hyperbole on my part at the time, but at the same time, I think deep down I had an inkling.</p>
<p><strong>How many books, besides <em>Euphoric Recall</em> of course, have there been about the Replacements at this point?</strong></p>
<p>Three or four main ones, I think!</p>
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<p><strong>So, eventually they get to work on <em>Let It Be</em>, a period of time that overlapped with when you were working for R.E.M.</strong></p>
<p>Right. Before we went into the studio to start <em>Let It Be</em>, I had gotten an offer to do some road-managing work for R.E.M. in between Replacement dates. R.E.M. had been playing Minneapolis for a couple years by then, and they really took the town by storm. … We got to be friendly; [R.E.M. guitarist] Peter [Buck] and I are very similar people , and he ended up crashing on my couch many times and staying up till the sun came up listening to records, because that&#8217;s what we love to do. And so, he offered me this temporary road manager position and I thought, “This would be great to do, but I can&#8217;t do it unless the Replacements are cool with it,” because they were my priority, obviously. And so, we had a meeting and I explained the situation and they all said, &#8220;Hey, this is cool, go ahead and do it.” I had kind of explained it as [R.E.M.] were a few rungs up the ladder from what the Replacements were doing, so maybe it would be an opportunity for me to kind of learn the ropes and meet people in higher positions. And so, I presented to the band that way.</p>
<p>And then they kind of changed their tune — or Paul did. The other guys didn&#8217;t really, but it was Paul who I think, looking back on it, wanted to be No. 1, and it hurt his feelings that I was paying attention to somebody else, to some degree. So, that made it a little tough there for a bit. But what happened was the [Replacements’] songs had started to advance at such a rapid rate, and I recognized it and I thought, “Paul&#8217;s having some kind of a breakthrough. He&#8217;s gone up several levels here, very quickly.” And I think he recognized that I recognized it, and so that brought us back together. We were probably closer during the making of <em>Let It Be</em> than we had been even before.</p>
<p><strong>And then Peter Buck was involved in that record. I don&#8217;t know if it was an urban legend that he was at one point tapped to produce it…</strong></p>
<p>He was never really on the bubble to produce, and we hadn&#8217;t really talked about somebody from the outside coming in, necessarily. He just wanted to come and hang out for the recording session. That&#8217;s why we put a guitar in his hand, when Bob Stinson was having a little bit of trouble playing the right kind of solo [on “I Will Dare”]. I mean, Bob himself even didn&#8217;t feel like he was nailing the right kind of solo. It wasn&#8217;t like Westerberg said, &#8220;Hey, you&#8217;re out, Peter&#8217;s in”; it was like Bob stepped aside and said, “Yeah, go ahead and let him try it.” Peter did the solo, and it was the right thing.</p>
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<p><strong>Didn’t Paul have “I Will Dare” in his arsenal for a while by then? Wasn’t it supposed to maybe be on <em>Hootenanny</em>?</strong></p>
<p>Yeah, he called up as we had just finished <em>Hootenanny</em> and sent off the audio to the pressing plant and the package to the printer. A couple days later he called me and said, &#8220;I&#8217;ve just written the best song I&#8217;ve ever written, and we need to pull the record back and add it!” We couldn&#8217;t do that. It would cost a fortune to kill the project and it would delay it and slow the whole project down. He was not happy about that, but he understood deep down. And so, we held it from the record. But it was, I think, the first thing we recorded when we started <em>Let It Be</em>. I&#8217;d been out on the road with R.E., literally flew in from a gig at Six Flags in Georgia on a Friday night, took a red eye- home, got a couple hours of sleep, and then jumped in the van and picked up the band and drove to the recording studio. And then Peter [Buck] flew in a couple days later. In fact, I brought a couple of his guitars with me, which was also added to my luggage! I&#8217;m trying to manage all this other stuff, and I thought, “Oh man, I&#8217;ve got the Rickenbackers with me here.” I didn&#8217;t want to see somebody steal them or whatever.</p>
<p>But anyway, we started recording and “I Will Dare” came real fast, because they had been doing it for close to a year by that time. One of the interesting stories about it — I don&#8217;t think we&#8217;ve talked about this too much in other interviews — was at one point after [Buck] had done the guitar solo, Westerberg just said, “God, it would sound kind of cool if there was a mandolin on this.” He didn&#8217;t seem real serious, but I kind of filed it away in the back of my head. My older brother was in a bluegrass band, so he had a mandolin player. I called him up and I said, “Any chance I can rent your mandolin?” And the Replacements didn&#8217;t have the reputation they do now, or did then, for breaking things, so he trusted me with the thing. I gave him 10 bucks to rent the mandolin from him. The next day, Paul and I were going to the studio and I went to pick him up and he looked in the backseat and saw this little case and said, &#8220;What&#8217;s that? &#8221; I said, &#8220;Well, it&#8217;s a surprise for you!” … I don&#8217;t know if he&#8217;d ever played one before, so it was really cool. He figured out that part out real soon and real fast. And so, that&#8217;s how the mandolin ended up on there.</p>
<p><strong>So, Paul had told you “I Will Dare” was his best song yet. When you heard it for the first time, what was your reaction? Did you agree?</strong></p>
<p>I did. … A couple of weeks after he had called me, we had a show at a place called Goofy&#8217;s Upper Deck in downtown Minneapolis, which was mostly a hardcore bar, but the Replacements were punky enough that they fit in and we got booked there quite a lot. I remember the set there being strong and we had a good crowd, and about seven or eight songs into the show. I heard them start a song that I didn&#8217;t recognize — a quick-strummed, kind of bouncy intro. It caught my ear because I knew their material so thoroughly, and as soon as the song kicked in, I suddenly went, “Oh, <em>this</em> is the one he called me about!” I mean, it sounded like a hit to me. It really did. And I don&#8217;t really think that way usually, especially with the band like the Replacements! But I thought, &#8220;Man, he&#8217;s written <em>the</em> song. This could be the one.” I was very excited about it.</p>
<p><strong>Another <em>Let It Be</em> track I have to ask about is “Androgynous.” It&#8217;s crazy that song came out more than 40 years ago; I think it’s more meaningful or topical now than it was in 1984. I interpret it as a very positive depiction of what would now be called a gender-neutral or gender-queer couple, and it has been covered by <a href="https://music.amazon.com/identity/who-is-listening?returnTo=https%3A%2F%2Fmusic.amazon.com%2Ftracks%2FB07HCSNWLM%3Fref_%3Ddmm_acq_mrn_d_ds_z_p454-cr2031436-c" target="_blank">Joan Jett with Miley Cyrus and trans artist Laura Jane Grace</a>, and also by trans singer <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DCS_MvCOJIg" target="_blank">Ezra Furman</a>.</strong></p>
<p>I couldn&#8217;t tell you what the inspiration was, and I didn&#8217;t ask him, but I know that when Paul first played it for me, he was very surprised by it and a little nervous about it. And I was really surprised by it too. He hadn&#8217;t written anything like it. And as you know, from the beginning, when I first met him, it was all rockers. When I first met him, it was like they wanted to be Johnny Thunder&#8217;s Heartbreakers. That was their thing. The first show I ever saw them do, they did three Johnny Thunders songs. … So, “Androgynous” was a real outlier. It wasn&#8217;t a song that anybody saw coming, and I think it was a very forward-thinking song and certainly is getting a lot of attention now.</p>
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<p><strong>Was there any kind of weird, transphobic public reaction to it when it came out?</strong></p>
<p>No, I don&#8217;t remember any kind of bad reaction. I think that people were kind of excited by the expansion of topic.</p>
<p><strong>I also want to ask you about “Sixteen Blue.” I believe it was inspired by the awkward age of bassist Tommy Stinson, Bob’s younger brother.</strong></p>
<p>That was a funny one. … I remember were at the Paradise in Boston where they were opening for R.E.M., and during soundcheck, they did this new song. I was walking around at soundcheck and hearing the words, and all of a sudden I went, “Holy shit, he&#8217;s written a song about Tommy!”</p>
<p><strong>How did Tommy react to it?</strong></p>
<p>We didn&#8217;t really talk about it. It was one of those things. I mean, everybody kind of got it that that&#8217;s what it was about, but it wasn&#8217;t something that was a big discussion point.</p>
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<p><strong>You mentioned the Replacements used to do Johnny Thunders covers, and there were some great, and surprising, covers during the <em>Let It Be</em> era, like Hank Williams’s “Hey, Good Lookin’.”</strong></p>
<p>There was a live version of that on the flip of “I Will Dare,” the 12-nch. We had two songs on the flip: “20th Century Boy” by T. Rex and then the Hank Williams song.</p>
<p><strong>And somehow that cover has something to do with Big Star’s Alex Chilton connection, who the Replacements later <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ftTOEJfzdq0" target="_blank">wrote a whole song about</a>. What’s the connection there?</strong></p>
<p>That was funny because we had been in Madison, Wis.; there was a club there run by a husband-and-wife team who were really, really good people and took a shine to the Replacements and booked them a lot. … I&#8217;ve sort of only half-jokingly referred to it as the Replacements’ Hamburg, because Madison is really where was where they cut their teeth, playing for people that didn&#8217;t watch them go through all their growing pains. And so, somebody, maybe one of our roadies, had thrown a tape that’d been a mixtape in our van to record the show, and “Hey ,Good Lookin’” was the last song they did. Maybe it was an encore; Bob’s solo is just so ridiculous, it sounds like he&#8217;s playing the wrong song. But we thought it was really funny. And so, on the way home in the van — I mean, this is another crazy thing, but when we used to go to Madison to play a show, we didn&#8217;t have money for hotels or anything, so we&#8217;d drive back afterwards. We’d leave Madison at 2 in the morning, and I&#8217;d be dropping them off when the sun came up. But anyway, as we&#8217;re driving back, Westerberg was riding shotgun and he kept playing that [newly recorded live Replacements] version of “Hey, Good Lookin,’” playing the solo and then rewinding it and playing the solo again and rewinding it and playing it again. And there was like this wrestling match in the van with Bob trying to get to the tapedeck. because he was going to chuck it out the window. So, it was like, hog-pile on Bob to keep him away from that tape.</p>
<p>The tape made it home, fortunately. So, when we decided to put it on the B-side of this 12-inch, Steve Felstead, the engineer, and I were transferring it from the cassette to a quarter-inch reel, and right when “Hey, Good Lookin’” ended, the mixtape that was on it previously popped out. It was almost like it was meant to be: There was the beginning of track one, side one of the first Big Star album, which the song “Feel.” You hear this <em>dun, dun, dun, dun, dun, dun, dun, dun, dun, dun</em>, and I thought, &#8220;That&#8217;s so cool! Let&#8217;s just put on a few seconds of it and fade it out.” It was a little Easter egg because everybody knows about Big Star now, but at the time they were not known at all. It was our little tip of the hat. And interestingly enough, the next year when meeting Alex Chilton, he said that was the first thing he ever heard by them. He&#8217;d been driving from Memphis to New York and stopped at a friend&#8217;s house in Baltimore to spend the night before he went up to the city, and the guy said, &#8220;Hey, do you know about this band the Replacements? Look what they&#8217;ve done here!” And he played it for them. So, that would&#8217;ve been his intro to them.</p>
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<p><strong>What a great story! Now, I also have to ask about <em>Let It Be</em>’s cover of KISS’s “Black Diamond.” This was recorded in early 1984, long before people were admitting to liking KISS, ironically or unironically. No alternative rock bands were playing KISS songs back then, except Redd Kross. And I think Gene Simmons might&#8217;ve seen Replacements do “Black Diamond” in concert once?</strong></p>
<p>Yeah, Gene came to CBGB. … It was actually not a great show. Alex Chilton was opening up; it was the first time we met him. I think that the Replacements had a few extra cocktails because they were so excited, and it was a pretty messy show. Also, they&#8217;d just been on the cover of the <em>Village Voice</em> and there were a lot of A&amp;R guys in New York that were like, &#8220;Who&#8217;s this band we&#8217;ve never heard of?&#8221; So, it was packed with record executive.</p>
<p><strong>This was a common occurrence, right? Where the Replacements would have a big show and not be at their best, but then they&#8217;d play some other show for like 10 people, and it would be the best show you ever saw in your life?</strong></p>
<p>Yep, that&#8217;s <em>exactly</em> right! But anyway, while they were playing, [the sound guy] kind of nudged me — the club was packed, wall-to-wall, and there was a tall guy standing to our right — and he said, &#8220;You know who that is? &#8221; I said no, and he said, &#8220;It’s Gene Simmons!” Of course I wouldn&#8217;t recognize him.</p>
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<p><strong>This would have been around the time that KISS makeup came off. It came off in 1983 at an MTV press conference.</strong></p>
<p>I wouldn&#8217;t have recognized him with his makeup on! [<em>laughs</em>] But anyway, and there was a little talk-back system at CBGB, a little microphone on the board that you can talk to the band through the monitors. And so, when they finished a song, I hit the button and said, &#8220;Hey Paul, Gene Simmons just walked in, no shit.&#8221; And without missing a beat, they crashed into a really terrible version of “Black Diamond. “</p>
<p><strong>Which is <em>not</em> a Gene Simmons-penned KISS song. Paul Stanley wrote that. Do you think maybe they should have done one of Gene’s song?</strong></p>
<p>Well, I don&#8217;t think they knew very many. But anyway, he turned and left <em>very</em> quickly.</p>
<p><strong>Oh, man!</strong></p>
<p>But you&#8217;re right about the non-ironic part of it, because they also did [the Simmons co-write] “Rock and Roll All Nite.” I remember seeing them do that at another club in New York where it was a big crowd and they didn&#8217;t know whether the Replacements were making fun of it or whatever, but did such a great version of it that it didn&#8217;t really matter. … Actually, we recorded four covers during the <em>Let It Be</em> sessions, and we had to pick one. We didn&#8217;t want to put two covers on, but we thought one would be fun. I think that the band was kind of leaning towards the T. Rex song because they did a great version of “20th Century Boy.”</p>
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<p><strong>What were the other two?</strong></p>
<p>The Grass Roots’ Temptation Eyes and “Heartbeat, It&#8217;s a Love Beat” by the DeFranco Family. … When we were deciding what&#8217;s going on in the album, I had the T. Rex song on there, and then I started thinking, “This is kind of obvious.” So, when we had a little band chat about what songs various members liked and what they didn&#8217;t like, I said, &#8220;I think it&#8217;d be cooler to put on the KISS song, because it would be so unexpected.&#8221;</p>
<p><strong>The last <em>Let It Be</em> track I want to discuss is an original, “Unsatisfied,” which is considered to be another one of the Replacements’ greatest songs. You were mentioning how Bob Stinson didn&#8217;t do the solo on “I Will Dare,” but it was a complete opposite story with his guitar playing on this song.</strong></p>
<p>Yeah, he did a great guitar solo on this one, and that was a studio concoction, really. Paul had written it, brought it to the band, taught it to Bob, and they recorded it right away. I don&#8217;t think we even did more than one version. We had one good backing track. Paul took a couple shots at the vocal, but there was only one really good vocal. The interesting thing about that one was when we recorded it, it didn&#8217;t have the acoustic guitar intro and we didn&#8217;t use things like click-tracks or anything, and there was no count in. And so, when all of a sudden Paul said he wanted to put a 12-string at the beginning, it was really difficult to record the 12-string and then line it up so it sounded right.</p>
<p>Another interesting thing about “Unsatisfied” is I remember after the record was out, we were driving through somewhere in Kentucky or Tennessee on a two-lane road and stopped to get gas. There was a payphone across the street, so while the van was gassing up, I ran across to call back to the office in Minneapolis, to just check in any names for the guestlist, that kind of stuff. Dave Ayers was a guy who was doing some A&amp;R while I was away so much with the Replacements, and Dave said, &#8220;Hey, we got a call from Debby Miller, a writer from <em>Rolling Stone</em>. She loves the album and they&#8217;re going to review it, but she doesn&#8217;t understand one lyric.&#8221; She wanted to know if I could tell her what it was. … It was the line, &#8220;Everything you dream of is right in front of you,” but she couldn&#8217;t figure out what he said right after that. So, I&#8217;m standing there in the payphone booth and I&#8217;m looking across the street, and there&#8217;s Westerberg standing a couple feet from the van smoking, of course — which is good idea in front of the gas pumps. So, I shout across the street, &#8220;Hey, Paul, <em>Rolling Stone</em> is reviewing the album. They don&#8217;t understand this lyric, ‘Everything you dream of is right in front of you.’ What do you say after that? And he shouts, “Liberty is a lie!” from across the highway. I thought, &#8220;That&#8217;s a fucking great line!” So, I read it into the phone, and Debby Miller put it in her review.</p>
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<p><strong>I’ve read that “Unsatisfied” is at least partially about Paul&#8217;s frustration with where the band was at that time. Some people might&#8217;ve thought a band with their reputation didn&#8217;t want mainstream success, but I feel Paul did. Did that inspire this song at all?</strong></p>
<p>There wasn&#8217;t a lot of talk about, “Where did this song come from? What did you mean? What were you feeling, Paul?” Those were not conversations we had. But I was shocked, and I&#8217;m shocked to this day, that it took them <em>four</em> albums before the major labels really got serious about coming after them. So, I think if you&#8217;re Paul Westerberg and you&#8217;re writing “Color Me Impressed” and “I Will Dare” and “Unsatisfied” and you&#8217;re not getting the kind of attention that you think you should be getting, you&#8217;re probably not very satisfied.</p>
<p><strong>Obviously, the Replacements got to a certain level of success, especially critically, a type of success that many bands would be thrilled to have, by the time they broke up. But like you said, you thought “I Will Dare” sounded like a smash, and that <em>Let It Be</em> took the band to a new level. Did you guys think, even in the back of your minds, &#8220;This is <em>the</em> album, this is the one that&#8217;s going to do it”? They did get signed to a major label, Sire, after <em>Let it Be</em>, so I assume this record attracted attention of Seymour Stein or whoever. Were you thinking, “OK, <em>now</em> things are going to happen”?</strong></p>
<p>I don&#8217;t know that that was really the way we thought. I think that everybody wanted to be more successful. Everybody wanted to be making a better living or whatever. But the idea was just to make the best records we could, and to tour as much as we could. And even though they did a lot of shows that were falling-down drunk, they didn&#8217;t go out there on <em>purpose</em> to do a shitty show. It was just kind of the luck of the draw. There was something cool about that, in a way, that they couldn&#8217;t fake it. And so, on a night where the chemistry wasn&#8217;t there onstage, sometimes they&#8217;d maybe flush it down the toilet a little bit and just be goofy. Or we played a lot of places where there were big punk-rock audiences and they&#8217;d do everything country-style, just to piss them off.</p>
<p><strong>Did that piss <em>you</em> off sometimes? Here you are, their manager who’s believed in them since the first 20 seconds of their demo tape, getting opportunities like being on the cover of the <em>Village Voice</em> or playing important, buzzy shows attended by rock stars and A&amp;R execs, and they sort of blow it. I imagine that could be frustrating.</strong></p>
<p>Well, if you&#8217;ve got a bunch of people standing in front of you saying, &#8220;This is what we want, this is what we expect from you,” they are the kind of band that&#8217;s going to go the other way. I mean, that&#8217;s just the way they work. I was more frustrated when they just played shows that sucked because I knew that they were much better than that. There&#8217;s a lot of bands that go out there and they&#8217;re great every night, like a Bruce Springsteen kind of thing; they give it their all every night. Not everybody can do that. So, I kind of admired [the Replacements] for not playing the game in those ways. … I just think that there&#8217;s a purity to what they did in a way, that they didn&#8217;t kiss people&#8217;s asses at record labels. They did quite the opposite. I think that&#8217;s part of what makes people interested in them still. But who knows how that happens? It&#8217;s like that question they asked John Lennon many years ago, “To what do you attribute your success?” And he said, &#8220;Well, if we knew we&#8217;d form another group and be managers!&#8221; I think it&#8217;s that-X factor thing.</p>
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<p><strong>But it’s been brought up many times that if the Replacements <em>had</em> played the game more, the world could have been their oyster. And this goes beyond <em>Let It Be</em> — like, it applies to the <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fl9KQ1Mub6Q" target="_blank">“Bastards of Young” music video</a>, which is now a classic, but was <em>not</em> playing the MTV game. I don&#8217;t know if that&#8217;s something any of them or you ever grappled with, the idea of what might have if they’d just fallen more into line.</strong></p>
<p>I&#8217;m sure everybody thinks about it. But we might not be talking about them now, had they done that kind of thing.</p>
<p><strong>There might have been fewer books written about them. Or, those books would have been a lot less interesting.</strong></p>
<p>I think of the eight records they made, <em>Don&#8217;t Tell a Soul</em> [released by Sire Records in 1989] is the one where they really did try to play the radio game and all that. And I think that&#8217;s their least interesting album. I think it&#8217;s got some real duds songs on it.</p>
<p><strong>Fair enough. So, I&#8217;m going to put you on the spot. Given the fact that you never knew what you were going to get with them, what is, in your opinion, the best show you ever saw the Replacements do? And just for kicks, what were the worst?</strong></p>
<p>God, there were a lot… I mean, I saw them hundreds of times, and they were great more than they were bad. I know a musician, Joe Henry, who when I met him said he was a big Replacements fan and he saw them eight or 10 times and never saw them do a good show! And I thought, “Well, that&#8217;s too bad. I&#8217;m sorry about that, but I&#8217;m glad you like the records.” He</p>
<p><strong>Joe Henry gave them a lot of chances!</strong></p>
<p>But I guess I remember after the CBGB show where Gene Simmons turned up, the reason we had to play CBGB was because we&#8217;d been booked in a bigger room about a week and a half later called Irving Plaza. That was a big deal at the time. CBGB was booked first, so when we got the Irving Plaza gig, they said, &#8220;Well, there&#8217;s a no-compete [clause], so you can&#8217;t do this show.&#8221; I said, &#8220;What if we do the show under a fake name?&#8221; They said that&#8217;d be OK, so the Replacements actually played as “Gary and the Boners,” which wasn&#8217;t really all that much of a secret. And oddly enough, Alex Chilton, who was just coming out of retirement, said, &#8220;If they&#8217;re going to play under a fake name, I am too!” So, he played as “The Deteriorating Situations.”</p>
<p>I had to convince [CBGB owner] Hilly Kristal &#8220;Look, there&#8217;s going to be a huge crowd [at CGBG]. You&#8217;re going to sell lots of liquor. Can we do this [Irving Plaza show] under a fake name?&#8221; And Hilly and I got along really well; he&#8217;d never liked the Replacements, but for some reason he and I always had a good relationship. So, he said, “Peter, I&#8217;ll do this for you.” We ended up a week and a half later going to Irving Plaza and it was like they had something to prove. because they knew they&#8217;d done a bad show before [at CBGB]. And they walked onstage and opened with “Rock and Roll All Nite”…</p>
<p><strong>And Gene Simmons was not there!</strong></p>
<p>But they just killed it. That was a brilliant show all the way through. So, that would be one of the best. There&#8217;s also a club in Trenton, New Jersey — there&#8217;s a bonus 10-inch that comes with this new <em>Let It Be</em> Package that has six songs from a recording in Trenton, New Jersey, at a place called City Gardens. That was another one where the PA was so good. The monitors were so good. They could really hear themselves, and they played their asses off every time they were there. I mean, some drunk shows of course too, but &#8230;</p>
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<p><strong>I think the bad shows are maybe the ones that people remember more, because that was part of the band’s lore.</strong></p>
<p>It became more of their lore. And it is kind of a frustrating thing where people come up to a band member or me or whatever and say, “I remember seeing them in Tulsa and you were so drunk you couldn&#8217;t play any of your own songs — and that was so great!” That wasn&#8217;t really why the Replacements were great to <em>me</em>.</p>
<p><strong>I have some couple obvious questions about Replacements lore, one of which was about the <em>Let It Be</em> album title. Some people at the time might have thought it was blasphemy, but I do believe it was at least partially inspired by you and your Beatles fandom.</strong></p>
<p>I think it was them needling me a little bit. Westerberg used to say, “[The Beatles] are a great rock band, but they&#8217;re not the be-all and end-all!” And I said, “No, they <em>are</em> the be-all and end-all, and you are wrong!” But I think what happened was, they probably were sitting at the CC Club, which was the bar kitty-corner from our record store where we all hung out all the time. … Paul’s sitting at the table with a couple of the band members and he said, “OK the next song that comes on the jukebox is going to be the album title.” And there it was: The Beatles’ “Let It Be.” And the other thing that I think was when we started making the next record [<em>Tim</em>], the first for Sire, right up until the last minute it was going to be called <em>Let It Bleed</em>. I thought that would have just been the coolest thing. to have <em>Let It Be</em> and follow up with <em>Let It Bleed</em>. And then at the last minute, Paul said, “No, I&#8217;m going to call the album <em>Tim</em>.&#8221; I was like, &#8220;Why?&#8221; And he said, &#8220;It&#8217;s such a nice name.&#8221; I think that was a missed opportunity!</p>
<p><strong>And of course, I have to ask about <em>Let It Be</em>’s iconic cover photo, shot on the Stinson family home’s roof.</strong></p>
<p>I was working at the record store that day that they took the pictures just a couple blocks really from where that house is. Dan Corrigan was a brand-new photographer at that time, and one of the guys that we worked with at Twin/Tone had said, &#8220;You should maybe take some pictures at their practice space, because that&#8217;s where they really became a band.&#8221; And so, Corrigan was shooting them there and then he said, &#8220;Let&#8217;s go outside.&#8221; And then all of a sudden… they got up on the roof, crawled through [Bob and Tommy’s] sister Lonnie&#8217;s bedroom window — there’s her baseball trophies in the window. When we were looking at the contact sheets, everybody just went, &#8220;<em>Wow</em>.&#8221; It really caught everybody&#8217;s attention. … It was like, “There&#8217;s your fucking album cover, right there.”</p>
<p><strong>Like it said: <em>Iconic</em>. And it’s nice with reissues like this one, the Replacements are more appreciated than they were around the time of “Unsatisfied.” That 1980 demo tape through which you’ve discovered them is in the Rock &amp; Roll Hall of Fame Museum in Cleveland, and they were even nominated for the Rock Hall in 2014. Do you think they&#8217;d ever get in? And would they care? Would they show up?</strong></p>
<p>Well, Tommy and I did a thing for my book [at the Cleveland museum], and it turns out the two directors of the Rock &amp; Roll Hall of Fame are Replacements fanatics. They were so kind to us, gave us like a two-hour private tour of the museum and couldn&#8217;t have been nicer. It turned out the main guy [Rock &amp; Roll Hall of Fame president Greg S. Harris] used to road-manage Ben Vaughn, who opened for the Replacements several times, so we were probably sharing dressing rooms and I would have met him many years ago.</p>
<p><strong>Well, there are a lot of Replacements fanatics out there who probably have Hall voting power now. <em>Let It Be</em> has been declared by some critics as the greatest coming-of-age album of all time, for instance.</strong></p>
<p>Yeah, and I think one of the other things about this new package I&#8217;m really excited about is the liner notes written by this woman, Elizabeth Nelson, writer from the East Coast, who I think we&#8217;re just so fortunate to get. I encourage you to read them — they&#8217;re really absolutely brilliant, and if she doesn&#8217;t get nominated for a Grammy, I&#8217;m going to be really shocked.</p>
<p><strong>I&#8217;m so glad you mentioned Elizabeth Nelson, because that was literally my next question! Just in terms of how they the Replacements have been historically perceived, I think she wrote something was really interesting. I&#8217;m going to quote her. “The Replacements were the ultimate rebuke to masculine punk, and <em>Let It Be</em> at its core is a record for girls.” I love that, because I think a lot of people think of the Replacements as being like a band for bros and dudes. But a lot of women love the Replacements, and Paul&#8217;s lyrics could be very sensitive and appealing to a female audience, so I appreciate that Elizabeth pointed that out.</strong></p>
<p>I thought it made sense. I don&#8217;t know that I&#8217;d really thought about it. I didn&#8217;t ever really think they were a guy&#8217;s band, necessarily. I just thought that they were a band for people who really paid attention to good songwriting and liked to have a laugh.</p>
<p><strong>With all these great stories about this mythical band, could there ever be a Replacements biopic? Have there been talks of one of?</strong></p>
<p>Well, there have been several [discussions]. The [<em>Trouble Boys</em>] book [by Bob Mehr] has been optioned a couple times. It was optioned by Josh Green, who&#8217;d done <em>The Fault in Our Stars,</em> and he was determined. He promised: “This is my next movie!” He had done an <em>X-Men </em>movie and he&#8217;d done a 10-episode limited series with Stephen King of <em>The Stand</em>, so he had made a lot of money and said he was going to do as his pet project. He actually came to my house and we talked a lot about it, but he couldn&#8217;t get the film companies to agree with them and come up with financing. I mean, Cameron Crowe came on board as a producer! Anyway, that went away and then the rights went back to Bob Mehr, but now they&#8217;ve been optioned again by Finn Wolfhard.</p>
<p><strong>No way! So… who&#8217;s going to play you?</strong></p>
<p>[<em>laughs</em>] I don&#8217;t even want to think about it! We&#8217;ll figure that out. Maybe there won&#8217;t be a manager in the movie, I don&#8217;t know.</p>
<p><strong>No, no, they cannot write you out of the story.</strong></p>
<p>Well, anyway, right now it looks like it&#8217;s something that&#8217;s very real. I was kind of glad when the idea of a biopic went away though, because I thought, “How many <em>good</em> ones have you ever seen?” I haven&#8217;t seen many; there&#8217;s way more bad ones than good ones, if you ask me. But I think Bob Mehr will be involved in the screenplay and keep them on the straight and narrow. And also, the impression I get is that Finn Wolfhard is a fanatic for the band and wants to make it real and true. And so, maybe, it would be a good one.</p>
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